Hey Steve: She’s Not in the Five Year Plan || STEVE HARVEY

  • Published on May 26, 2019
  • After the first date, she asked what he had planned for five years. It didn’t involve a relationship - should she be concerned?
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Comments • 445

  • Bobbie
    Bobbie 12 days ago

    Asking a guy his 5 year plan on your first date was too much, she’s hasty and like desperate

  • diamondz4lfye313
    diamondz4lfye313 17 days ago +1

    I can only understand her being skeptical because he said he wants to move out of the country in a year. And she knows now that she couldn’t ever do that if they’re together.

  • T S
    T S 18 days ago

    Sisssss 😂😂 slow TF down!

  • Grant Franchey
    Grant Franchey 2 months ago

    Some ladies need to stop instantly righting guys off for nothing...and then get confused as to why there still single

  • dlw sport
    dlw sport 2 months ago

    Be your own great catch!

  • C B
    C B 2 months ago +1

    Stop being desperate. Let things flow. Some women and their rules. 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • Really 69
    Really 69 3 months ago +1

    1st if all, meeting someone in the club is nothing but a meat market🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩!

  • Zee Rie
    Zee Rie 3 months ago +1

    "He's well off." All about the money women and ignorance. You never know how God can bless a person. STOP looking at a man's wallet and look at is heart. 2 Corinthians 5:7 Walk by faith not by sight

  • Not At This Time
    Not At This Time 3 months ago

    It was a no for me when she said they met at a club.

  • c perterpan
    c perterpan 3 months ago

    She like the girl who asked me if I miss her I told her no she ran away crying why would I miss you if I know you gone out to come back.

  • Ashtree
    Ashtree 3 months ago

    she's trying to meet biological clock timelines but you cant' do that if you're trying to find something substantial.
    be positive, take time to find the right person, and stay in good health and the husband and kids will come (whether its within 5 yrs or even 8-10)

  • Annette Lathan
    Annette Lathan 3 months ago

    She needs to relax its dating dont just be interested in him, date many men. Wow😥

  • Gilberth Pavon
    Gilberth Pavon 3 months ago

    Lol one date I don't know you women lol

  • Gilberth Pavon
    Gilberth Pavon 3 months ago

    At a club lol

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    evan windsor 3 months ago

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  • ashley garcia
    ashley garcia 3 months ago

    Steve I know you haven't made an episode with Theresa Caputo in a long time but I will really appreciate if you can have my mother get a reading from her, topic is based on my grandmother. my mother is so sick and doesn't want to heal herself because she blames herself for my grandma death and I can not allow my mom dying. I pray you see this..

    • Jim Jim
      Jim Jim 3 months ago

      The Steve Harvey show has been cancelled. The show doesn't exist anymore, there will be no more episodes being made. Hope your mum's okay but don't bother reaching out because the show doesn't exist anymore.

  • Enigma-Vision
    Enigma-Vision 3 months ago

    "He's well off" was the first thing she mentioned... sack chasin... I will continue to save my money and let MY finances serve ME!

  • 23respectme
    23respectme 3 months ago

    I love Steve, but saying there’s nothing a man won’t do when he loves a woman... that just sounds like a line from a movie, not real life...

  • artdancelvr
    artdancelvr 3 months ago +2

    A lot of y’all don’t seem to understand they just need material for the show. Takin it way too seriously.

  • Arnett Heathington
    Arnett Heathington 3 months ago

    i cant even look at steve the same i just see that guy from twitter

  • Behabtwa
    Behabtwa 3 months ago

    chasing the money. no wonder we are sick.

  • moesha gaomas
    moesha gaomas 3 months ago +1

    He doesn't know yet🤔 my lady take it slow😆😊

  • Erin Hawkins
    Erin Hawkins 3 months ago

    5 year plan? Us men barely know what a year from now holds lol

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  • Justglendalo
    Justglendalo 3 months ago +2

    I think the title of this video is misleading. She's wondering about the fact that he doesn't have marriage at all to any woman in his plans, not to her.

    • Special K
      Special K 3 months ago +2

      It is.. and she said she wants to know if it's a good idea to continue to date a man who didn't mention wanting marriage and a family in his 5-year plans... it's that people in these comments automatically came to their own negative conclusions without listening to what she actually said not what Steve implied..I don't know why they was making her seem desperate. #smh but she did mention in the comments she went on a 2nd date with the guy.

  • Deggan Dahir
    Deggan Dahir 3 months ago

    You 30 and you don’t got kids or a boyfriend👰👫

  • Michael Naisbitt
    Michael Naisbitt 3 months ago +1

    To many women are only concerned with getting married. It’s a minefield. If you lose this guy so what. There are literally thousands of men out there hunting women. They are like buses. Miss one another along in a minute. Relax girl enjoy your life before throwing it away on marriage to a dude you don’t know

  • Danielle Greer
    Danielle Greer 3 months ago +2

    A lot of yall are missing it. She wants to physically carry a baby and get married. Y'all want her to have a baby toooo late. Difficult pregnancies can break you and your relationship or marriage. We both 30. You like 30 year old women but you don't think about her biological clock. If he wanted a 20 year old, then his flexible time table for kids would be decent. Yes they could adopt but she clearly wants to carry a baby. She is basically cool with seeing where this goes if the at least want to be on the same page. She knows she ain't Sarah from the bible. Unless she marries uber rich to have fertility treatments and the best doctors she needs her love life in order to get her baby on time. That's what she wants. Ppl accept everything else nowadays but traditional views.

  • Waheedah's Recipes
    Waheedah's Recipes 3 months ago +2

    AMEN......STEVE when a man loves you there isn’t anything that he want do for you !

  • charmaine Rose
    charmaine Rose 3 months ago

    Hi Steve.am a very big fan of yours .am from Jamaica and living in Barbados. but I have a big question for you and your wife.so do you all have wattsapp page for your fans? as I would like to use wattsapp to speak to you and your wife.thank yoy

  • DEMETRIUS blaze
    DEMETRIUS blaze 3 months ago

    First they messaged then had 1st date and he was upfront with five year plan got a possible diamond outta of a club. Don't write him off not his job too say he want what you want y'all barely know each other

  • flex luthor
    flex luthor 3 months ago

    Bruh...let's keep in mind you just met the dude lol. I don't expect anyone to have someone they just met in they long term plan. Now I'm looking at this girl a lil sideways 👀that's a bit of an odd expectation

  • mizu -
    mizu - 3 months ago

    she looks 45

  • Chocolate Daddy ASMR
    Chocolate Daddy ASMR 3 months ago

    just chill out...take it slow

  • Natasha Ev Simon
    Natasha Ev Simon 3 months ago

    My ex husband said, did everything right when our relationship began also.
    Then he turned demon after 1 year of living together, after having kids.
    I discovered he had no job, he lied, he stole most of my bank savings, found out he wasn't even who he said he was. He almost killed me just as Jim Jones.

    • Natasha Ev Simon
      Natasha Ev Simon 3 months ago +1

      @Najiha Puteri
      thank you.
      What my ex husband used to destroy me,
      I'll use it to build others.

    • Najiha Puteri
      Najiha Puteri 3 months ago +1

      @Natasha Ev Simon Sounds like there were already signs. On a good note, you're in a better position now and that's a good sign. :)
      I've never been in a relationship myself, but I am quite sharp when it comes to learning a guy's motives - and like Steve said, it's partly due a woman's intuition. However, I am very aware that I might be an easy target to some "religous" wolves out there.
      Thanks for sharing your story. It might be helpful to young people here.

    • Natasha Ev Simon
      Natasha Ev Simon 3 months ago

      @Najiha Puteri there were signs, yes. Signs of being a good, wholesome Christian, good education, job, upbringing, morals and standards. These were all a fake personality btw. There were other signs, that I didn't know were negative, like moving fast into a relationship, control, overly helpful.
      These don't sound that bad,
      Right, but it was.
      It was the beginning of narcissistic abuse. I'm a school teacher that ended up running, escaping from him 3am, sleeping in the field, eating from garbage, making more kids that I didn't want, always beating my beautiful son that I already had and he drove me to insanity and suicide. Then, I took back the keys to my life. I'm here.

    • Najiha Puteri
      Najiha Puteri 3 months ago

      That's horrible.. Were there any signs at all, or your gut telling you something might be fishy about the guy you were with? Like what Steve said - there are usually signs that our intuition tells us if there's something about the person we're with

  • Marybeth Frank
    Marybeth Frank 3 months ago +3

    I don’t think the lady had expected to be in his 5 year plan. How could she after one date? I thought she was referring to the fact that he hadn’t talked about marriage or kids in his 5 year plan.

    • xspringrose
      xspringrose 3 months ago +2

      This is exactly what I've been saying! People really don't get it 🤦 It's like some of them don't have comprehension skills. She just wants to know of having a wife/marriage is in his general 5 yr plan, along with the travel (because it might not be)

  • Blu-Ray
    Blu-Ray 3 months ago

    Hoes are not my main priority Steve makes these hoes top choice and men are last Gtfoh ...

  • Breytner Montenegro
    Breytner Montenegro 3 months ago +2

    One date... And you expect hin to include you in his plans....
    I would hate to be in his shoes, for the honeymoon!!!😱😱😱😱🇬🇹🇺🇸

  • darabanks2000
    darabanks2000 3 months ago

    What was the rush?...being traditional and all😅she prob wanted to know cuz he was asking for the cookie or she gave it up already.

  • kemi makinde
    kemi makinde 3 months ago

    Is steve tired ?

  • Renee Jackson
    Renee Jackson 3 months ago

    Omg ..this is the same man he told me ..omg and he is not from the U.S.A..I do believe this is the same man ..damn that is the same man ..

  • BeeUtiful Crissy
    BeeUtiful Crissy 3 months ago

    I hope dude sees this so he can RUN! RUN FAST! Why would she think she should be a part of his 5 year plan when they JUST started dating? That makes NO logical sense. She's crazy...

  • Mal Bruni
    Mal Bruni 3 months ago

    She's left it too late..shes 30..and her sexual market value Is decreasing ...she should have locked down a guy years ago..hes in.no rush.....hes 30 and going places ...she's not part of his plan.youll probability find his wife material is about 25..that's what hes looking for

  • Donnie Nicholson
    Donnie Nicholson 3 months ago +1

    Asking someone if they have a 5 year plan is a legitimate question. Who you have around you (friends, co-workers, teachers, etc.) can and usually does affect your life. Someome with no direction will put a strain on those around them - most people I know who struggle don't have one; I did not have one until recently and usually made life unmanageable. As a man hoping to find that special someone to share the rest of my life with, I need to have my ducks in a row; offer a better potential for a good future vs "winging it". Now when asked if I have a 5 year plan I can answer the question and have a better feel on where things may go, if at all.

  • Jacqueline Ramphal
    Jacqueline Ramphal 3 months ago

    If u are concerned about it, there is your answer!

  • Gods own Son
    Gods own Son 3 months ago +1

    This is how some women end up being single mothers because they love to meet a bum who will tell them everything they want to hear and it’s such a shame.She should be lucky if he has her in his five months plans after the first date,that should be her main focus right now.

  • T C
    T C 3 months ago +1

    The guy is insane...tryst me people who move just to move are nutty.

  • gossetto fabulous
    gossetto fabulous 3 months ago

    So true Steve

  • nick houston
    nick houston 3 months ago +13

    She just met him and wants him to include her in his life plans? 🤦🏾‍♂️😂

  • Olivia Darden
    Olivia Darden 3 months ago

    2:14 cavewoman 🤣

    • T C
      T C 3 months ago

      Yep u peeped that out soooo good lol.

  • The Josh O Show
    The Josh O Show 3 months ago +60

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    -Josh Otusanya

  • Johnnese P
    Johnnese P 3 months ago

    I'm fine with saying my five year plan on the first date, however it doesn't mean YOU will be in that five year plan because we just met. It's not like you can't be added to the plan. That man didn't say anything that would make him not qualified for the second date, in my opinion... take a seat and enjoy the ride miss before you ruin something that could be good

  • J Q
    J Q 3 months ago +3

    2:15 Smoking HOT lady in the blue/teal shirt. Beautiful, glowing skin too! 😍

  • GypsetCity
    GypsetCity 3 months ago

    She sounds like she's from Germany or some other European counrty. Men there are NOT the same that they are in the US...

    • Kenzita v beurden
      Kenzita v beurden 3 months ago

      No we are much much better then the men in the U.S. thank god we are not the same as those dumb idiots. 😂

  • Lash Taylor
    Lash Taylor 3 months ago

    Girl 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

  • Najiha Puteri
    Najiha Puteri 3 months ago +1

    Steve's segments are so serious this season! Sitting on a chair, and his serious looks and all

  • Ese Umujane
    Ese Umujane 3 months ago

    Steve is one million percent correct.

  • Jonathan Collins
    Jonathan Collins 3 months ago

    Everyone's 5 year plan isn't going to be exactly like yours. Also plans change. Most men, depending on their age, probably doesnt have marriage in the plan. Doesnt mean he won't. Marriage is something you can't really put a time on. If the right one comes along and that's part of his "life plan", he will do it.

  • Stephania Edwards
    Stephania Edwards 3 months ago +3

    You know that 6th sense every woman has got?
    It never ever lies. Love may subdue it. Lust may subdue it, but hey, if you don't take the warning and counsel your 6th sense is giving you, trust me, you may fail.
    That 6th sense doesn't just scare you from trying, it actually informs you and counsels you towards the right path.
    As a lady, I've vowed never to shut down my 6th sense coz it has never failed me.
    I did so in the past and failed, I've learned and unlearned and at this instance of growth equilibrium, I respect my 6th sense enough not to ignore it's signals but to listen to it's counsels for positive out come.

    • Special K
      Special K 3 months ago

      Same here... but she responded and said she actually went on a 2nd date with the guy and 3rd date underway... hopefully, she be careful... because now he has so much leverage to lie to her just to cater to her specific needs.. it is a lot of pretenders out there in the dating world and it has gotten so much worse they wait to show them true colors well after marriage now... that 6th sense saves our lives as women like you I failed to trust it but I learned my lesson quick, fast, and in a hurry... I really was hoping she wouldn't have gone on a second date with him... but ah well... we all live and learn

  • Divine Rae
    Divine Rae 3 months ago

    Wow..this is why women get hurt geesh smh.