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I think this started as an advice video and quickly turned into a therapy session for you two haaaaaaaaaa
I feel like I'm the only non Muslim subscriber here but I love you guys! You are so funny and down to earth! Lol
I love them too!!! I'm not muslim either haha
I'm a Christian and I Love them!! I really like them.
Nope I'm here too, I love them. I'm Mormon so religiously don't feel too alien.
Hahah I have been freaking depressed about being 25 and still single and baby-less. I've been wanting both a husband and a baby for ages and it literally made me depressed every day thinking about NOT having those two things. Your video just completely changed my whole mind! The depression is seriously gone - Im laughing my butt off rigth now :D
Im 25 and still dont feel ready to become married or have a child.. even though I want to one day. I knew even more when I was with a man for 4 years that was YOUNGER than me that wanted it. Even when I got pregnant he wanted me to keep it so bad but I didnt.
@aristanae I realised that already :)
You should work on trying to make yourself happy, and not depending on anyone or anything else for it. Take care.
في النهايه الزواج رزق مثل اي رزق بالدنيا.. يرزقه الله لمن يشاء و يمنعه عن من يشاء.. المشكله تكون عندما نحصر تفكيرنا بفكرة أنه لازم نتزوج.. لازم نفكر كيف نعيش حياتنا براحه و كما يرضى الله.. و إذا جاء يؤم و تزوجنا فهو خير و أن لم يأتي فهو خير و الحمدلله.. لاتجعلوا الزواج هدف.. وربنا يرزقنا جميعا الأزواج الصالحين
I LOVE how comfortable they are with each other, they're not just husband and wife, they're actually genuine friends. It's so sweet! Like Sid can complain about not getting time to talk and Dina just grins and says, "Go ahead"
This is one of the most honest, down to earth, seriously spot-on replies to the question if someone should have a baby or not. People lie :) It's not all unicorn and rainbows, it's hard work and, as Sid said, it costs a lot of money. Thumbs up, guys!
At one point sid was staring so deep into my soul omg 😂
@***** I see. When I hear seeing or staring "deep into the soul", for me it's like being truely understood by someome. But I see your point, and maybe she meant it like that as well, ts ts ts...
+Punjabi Girl +Five fantastic girls Does staring mean you're flirting ?? 😳
LOL I WAS THINKING THE SAME
Ha ha ha get your own love!...
When you are young people ask 'when are you completing your studies' or 'why haven't you completed your studies yet'. When you hit your 20's they ask 'why aren't you married yet' and then when you eventually get married they ask 'why don't you have a baby yet'. People will always have something to say. Do things when you feel it is right; I wouldn't worry. Plus 23 is still very young, they need to enjoy their marriage a little.
Why is this so true 😂😂
AllahuRabbi Paul said this to the church of Corinth which was dysfunctional because everyone was shouting out whatever they wanted randomly and speaking in tongues without anyone to interpret what was being said so he told specific groups of people to do specific things to keep the church calm. women were allowed to pray and prophesy along with men (1 Corinthians chapter 14 verse 39) but the way the woman were speaking in the church was in an insubordinate way. There are plenty of woman in the Bible who have had leadership roles in civil government, have publicly praised God and given authoritative answers about spiritual matters to male civil leaders (Deborah, Miriam, and Huldah) he also told people who spoke in tongue and prophets to be silent (verses 28 and 30) when others were speaking. There are many interpretations for what Paul meant when he said it was disgraceful for women to speak in the church because the context in which he said it is kind of vague. and also the part about submission too. I wouldn't try to interpret the text literally since the meaning can be lost in translation and since it was a long time ago we might not understand the context in which it was said.
this is arab culture not islam.........
+eleonoraefulShow me another religion or way of life that says: "Paradise lies under the feet of your mother" (i.e. Show her kindness, serve her and only then does one gain the pleasure of God and his paradise).Foolish woman, the bible says it a shame for women to speak in church, it should have been otherwise too for you, because it's a shame that you get to spew your nonsense here.
+eleonoraeful Yeah, maybe I should turn into a Christian, because then maybe I'll be treated better.like these bible verses imply:Genesis 3:16Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. (There is no concept of original sin in islam!)"Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church." (I Corinthians 14:34-35)(Aisha (RA) the wife of the Prophet (SAW) was one of the greates scholars and she used to teach).
Love this videos : tks so much ❤️
I appreciate how honest you guys are and that you are the only people who truly spoke whats on my mind! my husband and I got pregnant completely unplanned. In fact I was avoiding getting pregnant completely but subhanallah it happened. I was not ready to give up my time for a child and you guys just confirmed all my feelings.
Are you pregnant yet? :P
+Nyasia Camara Im Nigerian
+SimplyZ What culture are you from?
lol me and my husband got pregnant. lol true enough
+SimplyZ I'm so sorry you have to deal with family members causing stress and diffculty like that. You could give a reason, as people have mentinoed, or you could just say you're not ready, or that you & your partner are not ready yet. Then give them a smile :) be confident! Their negativity is theirs, they own it, not you, leave it with them. Keep Allah close your heart. You are under no obligation to have kids now. 22 is not old at all! I'm 25 and don't have kids yet and don't plan to for at least a few more years. Many people don't til later in life, or at all! Family being pressurising is their own flaw, nothing to do with you. Don't judge them for it, but try to just leave it with them and let it bounce off you. Live your life and do what is right for you. The best time to become a parent is when you feel ready & motivated & want that in your life. If Allah knows something is better for you, then so be it. But if you feel you're trying not to get pregnant right now, contraception is something you can choose for you now. May Allah guide you & your family & make things easy for you.Regarding making sure everything is working, I'm not sure where you live but in the UK we don't even start investigating couples for conception problems until they have been actively trying for at least a year. Even then it starts with investigating the man, not the woman, because for the woman it is more invasive. I know in some places they will tell you they can look just so they can make money, but to really investigate this you're looking at having dye injected through the vagina into the uterus and such. An ultrasound scan won't tell you much unless the is something very obviously structurally wrong, which is unlikely. It's really not worth it unless you have actually been trying at ovulation time for a year. Even then, most of the time they don't find a reason for the woman not being able to conceive, often it's just put down to stress. But obviously the decision is up to you.In terms of contraception the injection is a good option, just go to the nurse once every 3 months, no one will know. Or the IUD can stay in for 5 years or more, so family really will never know! The copper IUD has no hormones, but the Mirena IUS does release hormones.Sorry for the essay, all the best sister :) x x x
I can imagine their daughter watching this when she's older 😂😂
The beanie suits you Sid 😊 You guys are hilarious!
"Basically, we've had a hard time realising our baby's not a cat!" LOL!!!
Heer Syal I laughed so hard 😂
Lol. if this doesn't convince anyone not to have a child until they're ready, I don't know what will 😂
LMAO DINA WAS SO IMPRESSED WITH SID SAYING OBSOLETE, "Is that a new word?" LAUGHING SO HARD, SO CUTESid (accent): What's 9+10?Dina (accent): 21I LOVE YOU TWO
oh my . Now I'm even more terrified of having a baby , it's my worst fear ! But you guys are hilarious . Low-key wishing you were a bit positive about it though (:
I feel like such a weirdo saying this but can you imagine if Sid filled in his eyebrows? They'd look so BOMB lmfao
Omg I started zoning out and thinking that too LOL 😂
Lol, at least I wasn't the only one then 😂
I WAS FILLING IN HIS EYEBROWS IN MY HEAD HAHAHAHA
+I TESTIFY THERE IS NO GOD BUT ALLAH Its where you get a eyebrow kit (brow shadow) and you basically fill your eyebrows to make it look more defined.
20 minutes into the video and I realize I'm not even married, I don't have children, I'm 20 and I have reading to do, but I learned so much about my baby 😂😂
Agree with this. Don't listen to anyone lol. I just had my first baby in November and I thought I was ready...honestly being a mom is really hard. Harder then i could ever imagine. I love my son so much, but your whole life changes when you have a baby. Have a baby when YOUR ready, don't let anyone pressure you honestly not even your husband. Have a baby when you think your ready. They are not the ones breastfeeding at 2 am half asleep lol. Being a mom is hard, your whole life revolves about the baby. Don't get me wrong my baby is my life, but definatly do it when your ready. Oh I could go on for days lol, but I think Dina scared you enough lol.
Btw I'm a girl lol I must be logged in on my husbands account.
I didn't have this experience when my daughter was born, she was born unwell so I really appreciated having her and being with her so I actually feel like I had a an amazing time with her being a baby once we got home and she was better. BUT now I have a sassy, strong, independent child who ears seem to have fallen off because she won't listen to me even when I call her name. She busts in on every shower I have and eats anything that I have on MY plate lol I couldn't be happier though ❤️
Love you guys! You were spot on, but HATE TO TELL YOU... The baby part is way easier than the teen years. It only gets harder, but in a different way the beginning is physically taxing, but the emotional and mental part is so much worse. I've got 5 kids ranging from 22-9 Alhamdulillah. It's more difficult than you can ever imagine. Allah help us.
this video was funny, it was meant to be an advice video turned out to be a cry for help 😂
You guys are the BEST! I love the reality check you gave here - great advice. Your playfulness and giggling is infectious!
"New word" lmao you two are tooo funny lol
That cracked me up lmao
Being a mummy to Nevaya who is 18 months old this really made me laugh!😂 Also, I got converted to Mamia nappies & they're the best I've used. You'll get used to no wet indicator & you can just tell by feeling how squishy it is! Save you a lot of money by Mamia!x
I meant to say.... It will save you a lot of money buying Mamia nappies & also wipes, considering they're so amazing why not buy cheaper!x
Can watch you guys all day long! lol so entertaining
...And good advice. Keep these videos coming guys 👍👍👍👍👍😄
23 isn't old thats really young, especially for having a baby. most of my aunts had their first kids in their teens, but my mom was 26 and we're all doing okay. she had her last kid when she was 40 and none of us are dead or anything so
My mum had me at the age of 17
youre right 23 is really young especially for a guy to be a father at such a young age. are they mentally ready? most arent but the decision is pto each individual
I'm my mother's first child and she didn't have me until 32, which I think is a good time to have children
I don't know why I found this comment to be so funny lol very true though!
I'm not even married but this was so entertaining. I love you guys ur so real and genuine
I love how honest you guys are! This cracked me so much aha
I would take my newborn daughter to the movies......and breast feed her under a blanket :) worked every time :)
One of the main reasons I follow you , besides you two being absolutely amazing and just an overall inspo it's your HONESTY! Not just with this topic but as a general whole , thank you ...
I forgot to take my contraception pill and by the time I finished this video I remembered to take it lmao
This is traumatizing... it should be included in the sex-ed class for teens.. no one is getting pregnant after hearing ur rant lol
awww this makes me even more appreciative of my mother. alhumdullilah :')
This made me respect my mother even more. I can't imagine how she did it four times
OMG ماشاالله may Allah unite this family in jannah Ameen 😁😁😁
I love how this turned into a rant 😂
Hana must be such a blessing mashallah, im sure all the sleepless nights and nappy changes are worth it
LOL this video is amazing! I took a parenting course in high school and there was a point in the course where you get this infant simulator that cries, and has the same needs as a normal infant. I had this baby for A DAY, not even a whole day either, just from 3 pm till the next morning and wallahi I never wanted to have kids after that. I did not sleep all night, this infant simulator went on and on for hours on end. Even when I wanted to shower, I couldn't take my time or enjoy my shower because I was worried it would go off. So, honestly I cannot even imagine their struggle. Ovbiously it helps that its actually their child and not someone else's or a fake robotic baby but still, parenting is no joke.
I love how sid is just checking him self out the entire time in the view finder
I appreciate the honesty. I haven't seen anyone on yt to be this honest and this is a good thing. Is better for the future parents to know what they will deal with.
Haha! You guys made my day! I'm a mom of 3 and I feel ya, being a parent is the hardest most amazing job 😂
sid looks super mischievous throughout the video!
Hahaha right?! The whole time he looked like he was going to crack a mean joke - at least that's what it looked like to me lmao
I'm left feeling I should send u a bill for a therapy session
While watching these videos, it makes me feel like you're my parents, sitting me down for an advice talk. 😊
Such an honest and true account of what it's like being a new parent!! I love how you guys are so straight up and tell it like it is :D
I honestly have not laughed so hard at a video in so long! I'm watching this as I feed my 22 month old. I have his cot next to my bed with one side off, so it makes my bed a bit bigger lol. None of my 3 boys were planned and whenever someone talks to me about their plans to have a baby... I always tell them "DON'T DO IT!" 😂 my boys are 5, 4 and 2 (almost) and they are hard work. I haven't had a shower since... I couldn't tell you when. You could probably deep fry chips in my hair, I've got vomit from 2 different kids on me. I spent Monday night awake all night with a vomity baby, got my 5 yr old ready for school and went to sleep at 9am, and then I spent last night awake until 4:30am because my 4 yr old vomited in his sleep (special needs). I then woke up at 8am. And God help me if I need a bloody poo!!! I have to go over the rules, monster-proof the house then try to poo while listening to screaming and crying because they're all trying to rip each other to shreds because they all want the same Megablok of which there are a whole box full!! BE SELFISH!
+Parm Virdi that made me laugh. The joy of having kids! I agree with everything they said.
Oh and try Asda's Little Angels nappies! They're awesome and you can get 3pks for £12. They don't have any indicator (less chemicals I guess!) but you can just squidge the nappy lol. I've just started to use Asda's Smartprice nappies and they're the exact same as the Little Angels but 20 for £1.40!!
Love how we can always trust Sid and Dina to keep it very real
Oh my goodness! Hilarious! I am loving these video's because I feel like I getting to know the both of you better through them. Looking forward to the next one.
These guys are soo much fun, they must be great parents
I laughed so hard !!! Thank you so much for these advice videos. I love how relatable you are. keep doing these videos pleaseeeeeeee
ALL SO TRUE! That's why I cannot even IMAGINE how single mothers/single parents do it by themselves?!?! I literally DO NOT UNDERSTAND HOW a 1-parent household survives! Mad props & kudos to single parents 👍👏
When Dina's talking it feels as if Sid is just watching me. Staring into my soul. It's actually uncomfortable yet borderline hilarious. Love you guys hahaha
Always making me laugh, cheers Sid and Dina😂
I love how real you guys are! All my friends are finally pregnant and all excited... But I am just waiting for them to realize how fucking hard having a baby is!!! I thought I was the only one cause I see people posting how amazingly their baby is but there are many hardships to parenthood too... Ahh!!
totally loved this video. so nice to watch a couple go through exact same situation as myself n hubby. I've just had my first baby in sept, and i can not emphasise enough how hard it is, especially the first couple months. at first i thought it must just be us, but good to know we're not alone. 😊
haha the baby bump phase isn't always bliss. I was so sick with my 3 pregnancies that I was on multiple meds, hospitalised for dehydration for months, anemia, low blood pressure etc. I'm a revert so my parents aren't Muslim and my mom had me and my siblings pretty late. My parents weren't in a hurry for me to get married, even less having grand kids so I was pretty much left to myself and getting critised for my choice. I wanted them early cause I have a chronic illness that gets worst with age and I knew if I waited I wouldn't have the health nor energy to have them, younger for me ment having the family I wanted and get a break earlier than my mom who's 54 and still has my sister who's a teen at home and my bro who's still studying, living at home. Basicaly no matter what decision you make, someone is going to have something to say about it. Do what's right for you, your health both mental and physical and your partner.
Love these vids! even with your busy schedules, you still have the time to help others :) yay!
Lol! Sid and Dina once again thank you for your hilarious and brutal honesty. You guys are so real, so funny, and keep things so legit. I love hearing your advice. Keep it up. God bless you two and Hannah.
Guys.... totally have relationship envy when I watch you haha. :) You guys are so great together. God bless you.
This video is the best form of birth control.. Jk lol, but seriously.
Wow lol! As a mother of two, I can relate, especially to the breastfeeding bit. Like honestly, expressing milk will save your life. I've gone months without a good night's sleep because of the every 2 hour feed...omg...then I look at my partner and he's fast asleep and a little tear drips from my eyes haha! Having a baby is not a joke, so PLEASE be as selfish as you can now, because selfish does not exist after baby 😂 Oh and going out.....hahaha what is that???
This video was hilarious, I'm glad you two released what you've been bottling up inside 😂 looked like you were bursting just to have a rant about having a baby. Poor guys, I pray u get some sleep sid! And dina I pray you can have your shower 😭😭
I can't wait for Hana to grow up and watch this!! You guys are awesome parents!! I know it's tough, but you are doing great!!
Laughed the whole way through that, so honest hahahaha love you guys!!
Dina: what's life like being a new dad? Sid: it's shit. LOOOOOL!😂😂😂
Thanks for the honest answers!! You guys are amazing. I actually never want to have a baby lol
My babies are 6 and 19 now, and I remember so many of the things you said. LOLThank you for this video. Brightened up my day. You're a beautiful family.
I love how offended they are that babies poo on you then laugh.
it's so funny how this advice video turned into a little ranting video 😂 love you guys! x
I love these, they're entertaining and hilarious!! I'm like 14 I'm far from having a baby yet I'm watching this lmao
Omgoodness me, where have you guys been all my life, I just literally discovered you guys channel, I absolutely love you both. So real, so relatable, you both are such an inspirational couple. This video was the most hilarious for me, and just made my night. Thank you, stay blessed. Ameen 💕
You should have titled this video "a baby is not a cat" lmaooo
love how honest & real you two are that was the bomb
18:31 hahaahhaha. I am loving these videos so much! you guys could be rambling for hours on end and id still find it entertaining, its like im listening to my friends telling me something :D
Hehehe It's so cute that this ended up being somewhat like a rant for the both of you :D I can't possibly begin to comprehend the challenges of parenthood but it's a seriously a life changing experience. I think everyone should take note of this, it's really important to be as prepared as possible (:
Hilarious stuff. You guys are keeping parenting real haha
This was really informative guys, thank you sooo much!! Allah bless you always ameen :) xx
Lmfao!! I literally cried of laughter, you two are hilarious but are exactly on point with having children!
I've learned more from your videos than anything in my whole life 😂😂
Dear Sid and Dina,I am sooooo glad that I've discovered your channel! You both are amazing. I am literally obsessed with your talking videos. You both are hilarious and wise at the same time.I don't know whether it's the right thing to say that but especially in a time like this, where islamophobia is so wide spread in the western world, it's good to see you as an example of educated and modern muslims. I love your accent btw.greetings from germanyyyyy
Lmao everything you said is so true! I had to pause this video like 5 times and tend to my 6 month old and 2 year old. There's a reason they say it's the hardest job but the most rewarding job! Dina I think it's great that you are co-sleeping! My husband works nights and both of my babies have slept with me until they slept through the night. Like you said it makes waking up for breastfeeding so much easier too. You're doing a great job adjusting to parenthood even if it doesn't feel like it sometimes!
Love this video. Felt you going crazy with all the new baby stuff, I feel the exact same way! Lol
This was a total crack up!!!! Loved it 😂😂😂 thanks guys
Thank you for being so honest about it all. It is a struggle to bring up children and I didn't know how hard it is was until I had my own. I have a 3 year old and a 1 year old. I haven't had a good nights sleep in about 3 years lol
I love both of your guys' outfits in this video ☺️☺️ And again: cutest couple ever 💖Mashallah
i love how u guys give honest opinions
I dont understand my own comment after an year lol when m actually married and thinking about the topic for real lol 😂 this vid scared the hell out if me 😂 😂
Keep this videos coming! Such real advice, I can see you guys have bonded over these tough life experiences. At least it's brought you closer together. Remember every baby comes with his/her own rizq, hopefully that keeps the money issue more positive. May Allah bless your marriage!
Your videos are so enjoyable☺ Sid's face when you were talking was soon funny 😂 Love you Dina & Sid 💜💕💞💜
I totally agree with this! This is so true when you have your first baby! After you have gotten over the first baby experience it all comes naturally by the time you have baby number 2 and 3!
I absolutely loved this. This is sooo true. Being a mom to a preemie, 3 months in the nicu and plenty of problems. It's hard I tell you. Good advice guys
My mom did all the things that you guys are doing, alone. while working her ass off for her inlaws. shit!
Rumaan Naeem shitty inlaws then, they should be helping her instead
Power to your mom ✊🏽
Omg I absolutely love this video, I completely agree with everything u have said! I had a baby around ur time too and went through the same, u r deffo right bwt the costs included and how much ur time goes onto the baby, plus yes aldi nappies all the way lol! Love ur videos plz continue doing them 😊
I think I´ll watch this video again when I start planning having a baby with my future husband cos its such a good information.. ps love you two so much!!
You guys are awesome, goal couples mashallah, thank you for speaking the reality so everyone thinks twice before making a decision like that!
You guys are my new FAVORITE couple. You two are soo honest and to the point! I really really enjoy watching you two. Im so glad I subscribed! Thank you for being the coolest!
having a baby is a wonderful experience, I absolutely loved having my bump, every pain is sooo worth it when the child is past to you after birth subhanallah. Anyway everything what dina and sid said is one hundred percent true, I bought my sons cot costing us nearly £300 but even till now my son don't sleep init and he's 19months now😊 so it was a complete waste of money, and the other thing I'll recommend too is yes give the baby the bottle too, I know mothers milk is best but even if you're going to express give the baby bottle omg I struggling sooo much I thought if I give it to him after few weeks or so he'll be fine and he'll take it boy was I wrong, he never took it and it's sooo hard, plus I'm weaning him off breast atm. love your videos guys xx
Great video guys! Honest advice about what parenthood is exactly like ! You mentioned training hanna to crawl. Try and get her to have plenty of tummy time and inshallah she will start wanting to move forward on her tummy etc
Omg you guys! Who needs contraception when we can just watch this video?! You guys are hilarious 😂
This was brilliant, really funny but absolutely spot-on!
These two have gone crazy! I love it!!
Love the honesty guys, for once a couple speaking with some realness!