Hey Steve: Becoming Mom to Her Step-Daughters || STEVE HARVEY

  • Published on May 11, 2019
  • She and her fiancé are both single parents. Now they’re trying to blend the families but she’s afraid the step-daughters won’t accept her. What should she do?
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Comments • 218

  • Rhonda Heggs
    Rhonda Heggs 6 days ago

    Older women also be your self gentle understanding and truthful nothing beats an understanding

  • Sleeping Cinderella
    Sleeping Cinderella 8 days ago

    she looks like a teenager herself and she has a 9 yo son and she's gonna be a stepmother of teenagers lmao

  • michael betancourt
    michael betancourt 28 days ago

    😭 that's real coming into a ready made family

  • Michelle Moulton
    Michelle Moulton Month ago

    But wynton is his youngest son...so i dont understand how he wanted to change his last name

    • Para Sakti
      Para Sakti 13 days ago

      Maybe his youngest stepson at the time... Before Wynton was born.

  • Nancy H
    Nancy H Month ago

    The woman handling the microphone sure looked sour-faced. I'm so surprised at that, staff usually very upbeat. I'm wondering what was wrong. Topic too painful or ?

  • Lily Flacks
    Lily Flacks Month ago

    Wow! Excellent wisdoms. And always in kindness.

  • Sigalit Davidov
    Sigalit Davidov 2 months ago

    He has so much love ...wow!!!!

  • Ar P
    Ar P 2 months ago

    Steve you know that boy really yours lol. He look just like you. 😂😂

  • Tracey-Ann Beckford
    Tracey-Ann Beckford 2 months ago

    I like that you were honest, Steve in directing her to someone who could better advise her. Keep up the good job. Bless you.

  • joseph robinson
    joseph robinson 2 months ago +1

    Just continue to love them and be there for them let God do the rest

  • eric jackson
    eric jackson 3 months ago +1

    Really great answer for ur son. Love it Steve!

  • Linda Maria Pettersen
    Linda Maria Pettersen 3 months ago +1

    If their mother is still in there lives, she will never be a mother to them. She will be, at best their step-mom, but most likely just "dads wife". Trust me. I have divorced parents. Both with new partners.

  • Zeynep B
    Zeynep B 3 months ago

    She's beautiful

  • sanchez831x4
    sanchez831x4 3 months ago

    Idk why ppl were laughing.. it wasn't to mock the boy.. it was to wake him up..

  • Beketele Dlamini
    Beketele Dlamini 3 months ago

    she is so preety

  • Kevin A.
    Kevin A. 3 months ago +9

    I really enjoy Steve because he knows when to say he doesn't know. He really could've said anything and ran with it.

  • Victoria Gonzalez
    Victoria Gonzalez 4 months ago +4

    Ok but her makeup is on point

  • Atomz1125
    Atomz1125 4 months ago +2

    If only Steve’s dating advice was as good as his manhood advice

  • Merinor Mercier
    Merinor Mercier 4 months ago

    The boy wants to change his name because he realizes the name Harvey is famous, and he wants some of that fame, and capitalize on it
    he's stop been dumb when he turned 16, he's biological father he's in jail anyway, he can't do anything for him, and who doesn't want to live in luxury????

    • Serwaa 22
      Serwaa 22 3 months ago

      Merinor Mercier or he wants to change his name to the same last name as his mother and the man who raised him

  • Mr. Pokey
    Mr. Pokey 4 months ago

    Easy solution. Wait till his daughters are 18 and either out of the house or are part time residents. Why are you moving in without being married?

  • Macaylah Lanier
    Macaylah Lanier 4 months ago +1

    “Where his punk ass at “😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • Angela H
    Angela H 4 months ago +1

    It looks like I spotted my daughter's vice principal in the audience.

    • Angela H
      Angela H 4 months ago

      Turns out it was him.

  • Tiffany C
    Tiffany C 4 months ago

    My response “I’m glad I’m not your mom” you grown enough to say it be grown enough to hear it...

  • Loving Life
    Loving Life 4 months ago +2

    Kids can be mean. As Steve said. Let them know your there for them and slowly build that relationship. They're will be ups and downs. Be ready.

  • T Calvin
    T Calvin 4 months ago +1

    Where his PUNK ASS AT is Right On Steve!!!

  • M. Aden
    M. Aden 4 months ago +1


  • Jah D
    Jah D 4 months ago +26

    Can we just commend her modesty!!!! Thank you for representing us women well.

  • M. Aden
    M. Aden 4 months ago +5

    Aww she looks so nervous about it all. Don’t worry girl I’m sure you’ll be a great step-mother!!! I wish you the best 💕🌸🥰

  • 00shyshy
    00shyshy 4 months ago

    Steve, you’ve done it again 😂😍

  • Jacqueline Ramphal
    Jacqueline Ramphal 4 months ago

    If you keep expecting to hear that ...you will!

  • Trinee Co
    Trinee Co 4 months ago

    😂😂😂😂😂Steve a fool

  • James walker
    James walker 4 months ago +1

    Your not my dad do where is punk ass at😂😂😃😃😃😂😂

  • Anna Novaz
    Anna Novaz 4 months ago


  • Sinenhlanhla Memela
    Sinenhlanhla Memela 4 months ago

    Waze wamuhle lo sisi. My my!

  • Noreen Perez
    Noreen Perez 4 months ago


  • Crimson Tiger
    Crimson Tiger 4 months ago +2

    I grew up with divorced parents whom both remarried. I got a step mom and step dad and a half sister, step sister, step brother, and full sister. My dad had married once vefore to my half sister's mom. It's one thing to become a step parent when the parent role you are fulfilling is vacant because that bio parent is gone or died. Its a lot harder on a step parent when the bio parent is alive and still has custody and visitations. My advise to step parents is this: if the bio parent is alive and active in the child's life, dont be afraid to parent that kid but dont tey to become thier bio parent. Be a person the child knows they will be loved by and can rely on. I love my step mom and on Mother's day I tell her Happy Mother's Day because she was a parent to me. I do the same my step dad. One entered my life when I was a kid and other when I was a teenager. The step parents are more concerned with being a great role model and parent than you think. They worry about what the kids think. Hats off to people that married into families. When my step mom married my dad, she didnt have kids or want kids but she raised me like a parent and she was a person I could depend on. My step dad had two kids that were older than me and I was a teenager. He knew how to be a dad but he had to adjust his parenting style to fit with how i was raised by my dad. Last thing to remember and this is for the kids: your parent remarrying is more for themself than for you. If your dad remarries then it's because he wanted someone to be with him for the rest of his life. He will require her to be able to become a parent but when you get older, you'll understand why he remarried. Every family is different though but this is just from my personal experience. Hope thats helps anyone out there.

  • Name
    Name 4 months ago

    This girl seems like she'll handle the kids fine. It's when you get someone with anger issues or is too much of a pushover that it can be a problem. I like how Steve handled it.

  • Kirwina
    Kirwina 4 months ago

    God knows, I do not want any man with children, gosh, it can be tough

    • Natasha Luo
      Natasha Luo 4 months ago +1

      My man had 5 kids before me and my twins came in. The youngest 2 are teenagers. No problems because I came in showing respect to their mothers first and foremost. He had one son at age 17 then later got married and had the rest. I think it's how you enter the family and most children hold loyalty to their mother. Another thing I love is even though my man's kids are for different women all the kids are close to each other.

  • msmylifegolden ellis
    msmylifegolden ellis 4 months ago +1

    I like Kelly Clarkson but dang Ima miss Steve's show! I love so many things about the show...Ask Steve/Hey Steve is my daily laugh.

  • Sha
    Sha 4 months ago +1

    I always told my daughter the day she say dat to my boyfriend im slapping the heck out of her cause he is feeding her right now while her dat out der with his girlfriend enjoying life

  • Gal Eri
    Gal Eri 4 months ago

    Wait she has a 9 year old son who has 2 children ???????

  • Margaret Thomas
    Margaret Thomas 4 months ago

    My advice... DON'T DO IT!!!!!

  • Anthony Urbanski
    Anthony Urbanski 4 months ago

    I love Steve.

  • Nicole Purcell
    Nicole Purcell 4 months ago +3

    My step son was told he didn't have to listen to me since I wasn't his mother. Things changed within years when he chose to live with us over his mother. Very hard job being the step parent. Even if they consider you as their parent.

  • ADK 77
    ADK 77 4 months ago +2

    His girls are TEENAGERS.... they are past the point of nurturing, you will never be thier mother,but you can be a respected stepmom to help them with their LAST steps to Adulthood......

  • Sofia Ramirez
    Sofia Ramirez 4 months ago +1

    Why would that hurt your feelings if is truth. They are already teenagers. You are their dad's wife and they have to respect you and you have to respect them but you are not their mother.

    • R Turner
      R Turner 4 months ago +1

      ..and not even the wife at that.. just a girlfriend, which can come and go.

  • Orante Frazier
    Orante Frazier 4 months ago

    Nothing wrong with saying I don't know when you just don't know.

  • Gissela Lopez
    Gissela Lopez 4 months ago

    I wanna be Steve’s next wife

  • Danielle Greer
    Danielle Greer 4 months ago

    I love Steve Harvey but this "Only a man can raise a man" ideal is crazy. There are TWO parents for a reason. Stop mixing up God's design

  • Siphesihle Gumede
    Siphesihle Gumede 4 months ago +2

    She is not their mother though, facts. She just has be okay with it. She is not and it's okay. She's a mother figure.

  • Shaw Mou
    Shaw Mou 4 months ago

    No! Beard! Again!

  • Ijeoma Anyanele
    Ijeoma Anyanele 4 months ago +3

    Hey Steve! Did you just discover the word, "nuances"?🤣🤣🤣

    • BlessedandRedeemed
      BlessedandRedeemed 4 months ago

      Ije' A honestly! I was out of breath waiting on when he wouldn’t stop saying it! 😅👀

  • CJoseph Ferrerro
    CJoseph Ferrerro 4 months ago

    The BEST age to give a runty kid a lesson in act right. Stay blessed Mr. Hightower 🙏

  • Error Report
    Error Report 4 months ago +1

    Y’all, do not take Steve’s advice literally here. Take this as a comedic moment, the child’s father in this situation was in jail at the time. If you have a blended family you’re trying to make work, disparaging the biological parent to the child is not the way to go.

  • Janet Adebanwo
    Janet Adebanwo 4 months ago

    Why will she be worried about a child saying you ain't my mother? Do your best, play your part they will come around and appreciate you.

  • The shenanigans of a Platypus

    Honestly, blended families can be a struggle. One wrong step and it can all come crashing down especially if you're dealing with teenagers. She will do well being a step-mum because she has a child of her own and she already knows how to handle kids. Even your own kid sometimes will say hurtful things to you (although it's easier to whoop your own biological child). It's harder for women who don't have kids of their own and have little experience with kids to become step-mom to teenagers. Teenagers are a trip and a half. She just needs to love them like her own, because they now are. And their father needs to make sure those girls understand who the woman of the home is. No undermining her authority like she's some outsider. She seems like a lovely person, I'm sure the girls see it too.

  • to infinity and beyond
    to infinity and beyond 4 months ago +1

    'well, where his punk ass at?' 😂

    SUNSHINE081 4 months ago +1

    I’m going to miss the Steve Harvey show soooo much

    D1VlN3 INSTINCT 4 months ago

    What great advice. Always looking forward to the wisdom you share.

  • Christina LT
    Christina LT 4 months ago

    I hope this show continues to go on. Cant believe its cancelled.