Mothers vs Daughters: Is Marriage Necessary?

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  • Jubilee
    Jubilee  Month ago +1343

    Hey everyone - thanks so much for watching this amazing conversation. Thank you to SK-II for making this episode possible! If you enjoyed this piece, be sure to check out SK-II's amazing docu-series #Timelines with Katie Couric ( that addresses pressures women face all around the world. Love you all - thanks for watching and supporting!

    • F.S WORLD
      F.S WORLD 9 hours ago

      Jubilee how about a video showing couples married young and those that married late? Me and my wife got married early and of course there were so many challenges but now we are way better

    • Erika Croft
      Erika Croft Day ago

      A great job as always! I would love to see a behind-the scenes of the casting process. I'm really curious, as I'm sure others are!

    • Deboras Smith
      Deboras Smith 2 days ago


    • nala beans
      nala beans 19 days ago

      kind of ironic SKII is one of the MOST over-hyped "all the cool kids are doing it" you too should spend enormous amounts of money on products with slim to no evidence.

    • mplsridah
      mplsridah 25 days ago

      Aleesha Khan exactly. Jubilee is partnering with a brand that promotes SELF-HATE. Look it up!

  • Hellsangel 04
    Hellsangel 04 Hour ago

    I hate feminazis as if men don’t have a tone of pressure to live a certain way,women have it easy trust.

  • Nellie Brown
    Nellie Brown Hour ago +1

    I think both sides were very respectful. But the 'you should have children just to experience it' is something I hear a lot. You go travelling just to experience it, you do bungee jumping just to experience it and if you dont like it you dont do it again. You shouldn't have a child just to experience it, they're a life long commitment. That's horrible advice

  • Colleen Hunter
    Colleen Hunter 3 hours ago

    Marriage is unnecessary. Period.

  • datkipztho
    datkipztho 3 hours ago

    this is such a beautiful and heartfelt conversation between women who are supporting one another and respecting everyone's opinions

  • Itz_Aabir
    Itz_Aabir 5 hours ago +1

    I can't wait till I have kids tbh

  • The Orange Lime
    The Orange Lime 7 hours ago

    Men can also be married.

  • Karina
    Karina 9 hours ago

    18:30 she really said "period" girlll ouu i see u😂

  • Lourdes Fonseca
    Lourdes Fonseca 10 hours ago

    I, as a mother and wife, pay ALL the bills.
    My husband takes care of the household: laundry, dinner and keeping the house clean.
    We never talked about “our roles.” We just fell into what we do best.

  • DublinGreen
    DublinGreen 12 hours ago +1

    Annemarie is the type of woman I want to marry, a woman's woman. Not marry a man in woman's body or a woman that behaves like a man.

  • DublinGreen
    DublinGreen 12 hours ago +1

    "Can I have my mother's to the left and my daughters to the right" lol how many daughters and mothers does that lady have?

  • Emma
    Emma 22 hours ago

    This was so wholesome

  • nick cap
    nick cap Day ago

    these 1 dimensional guys that havent thought about having kids, he aint the one

  • Hannah hannah
    Hannah hannah Day ago

    why am i crying in the club rn. i love you mom

  • Matthew Thompson

    I don't think marriage is necessary (outside of some legal problems like not getting to make your partner's end-of-life decisions), but I do think I've benefitted from mine. I like the idea that making a life commitment gives you a chance to cultivate the deepest relationship of your life. The longer I stay with my spouse, the more important it is for us to stay together. Having that type of commitment has helped me become a better person. Caution: Results May Differ

  • mali goebel
    mali goebel Day ago

    "kids do better with the mom" LMFAO NO YOURE WROG

  • mali goebel
    mali goebel Day ago

    when youre old and need help, dont make your kids take care of you and you don't need marriage and you dont owe a child to your mom

  • mali goebel
    mali goebel Day ago

    annemarie is prob anti vax

  • mali goebel
    mali goebel Day ago +1

    Lmfao Afrika was about smack Annemarie 'what do you know at 25?!". But just because you get your tubes tied doesn't mean you won't have kids. You can always adopt or have a surrogate if you change your mind

  • Erika Croft
    Erika Croft Day ago

    A great job as always! I would love to see a behind-the scenes of the casting process. I'm really curious, as I'm sure others are!

  • man man
    man man Day ago

    All I got from the white daughters home life is that she getting it from BBC and she paying for it lol.

  • Luna Moreno
    Luna Moreno 2 days ago

    Okay but overall this video was super wholesome because in the end all the mothers supported their daughters and understood where they were coming from.

  • Dani Alexandria
    Dani Alexandria 2 days ago

    Can yall not just mic the person asking the questions?

  • Barney Stenson
    Barney Stenson 2 days ago

    It's narcissistic to think only women have societal pressure to live a certain way

  • Panda God
    Panda God 2 days ago +1

    I believe gender roles are very important but they are NOT mandatory. It's just a cultural belief. I'm Mexican and I totally believe in being a strong woman but it's not impossible to be strong and have a level of respect for yourself and your husband. It's just a moral and personal choice.

  • melanie sosa
    melanie sosa 2 days ago

    You don’t need a stay at home mother for your children to do good. My mom worked two minimum wage jobs to be able to put clothes on our back and food on the table. If a child wants to do good, they are able to take an initiative if THEY want too.

  • kristal Perez
    kristal Perez 2 days ago

    That was sweet

  • Jeanae Parry
    Jeanae Parry 2 days ago

    I'm clocking Annemarie as Mormon.

  • Ke
    Ke 2 days ago +1

    wow I like Jewel sooo much! Wish she were my mom

  • Mini Cameron
    Mini Cameron 2 days ago +1


  • Peasant Things
    Peasant Things 2 days ago

    people without vs with children

  • M. Morales
    M. Morales 2 days ago

    I think the stereotypes surrounding marrige are very facinating, but I've never experienced them.
    My dad has always been the one to cook our dinner, to stay at home and take care of us, and my mother is the one making all the money. And I've never thought of that as odd, but watching this I realise it's not the "norm".

  • Taz D
    Taz D 2 days ago

    Chelsie seems like a lovely person

  • unshellHER
    unshellHER 2 days ago

    Afrika’s voice is so soothing lol 💕

  • Meghan Dunning
    Meghan Dunning 2 days ago

    I fought to get my tubal at 25. Nothing wrong with it. Congrats on Afrika for choosing it. Not everyone wants to have kids and carrying a baby inside you sucks and yes you have to give up your life when you have kids and it sucks sometimes. Other times it's awesome having kids but overall...
    If you can go without kids do it. LIVE.

  • Roma Martinez
    Roma Martinez 2 days ago +3

    Annemarie is literally the sweetest women ever.

  • lil fox
    lil fox 2 days ago

    When Annemarie don't work how will she get pension?
    Do Amerikans get pension? 🤔
    And just in case they get divorced how does it work for her to earn a living when she didn't work for over 20 years? (it is not very likely but still)

  • Leslie Blake
    Leslie Blake 2 days ago +1

    All the mums are amazing! But, Cassandra mum is the sweetest person ever!!!!!!

  • DaChun G
    DaChun G 2 days ago +5

    Afrika’s voice should replace siri. Way to calm.

  • David Hernandez
    David Hernandez 2 days ago +4

    ok, we got the female perspective now the dads and sons.

  • Sabrina Applevong
    Sabrina Applevong 3 days ago +3

    Damn everyone is coming after Annemarie. Chill. Her expressing concern is a completely normal and motherly thing to say to someone making a big decision like that. Regardless of her getting married younger, times and expectations were different then and people in their 20s were at way different places in life. She wasn't being vicious or mean whatsoever.

  • Collin Babin
    Collin Babin 3 days ago

    1:27 GAMER TIME

  • Barbara Negrao
    Barbara Negrao 3 days ago

    “children do better when their mom is at home and taking on the traditional role” oh no baby what is you DOIN

  • Creative Ameena
    Creative Ameena 3 days ago

    my heart 🥺🥺 this video was so fulfilling and one of my favorites, the understanding wow

  • MJ
    MJ 3 days ago

    You can do whatever you wanna do, but Y’all talking like marriage and getting your tubes tied are the same thing, when divorce exists vs. no physically possible way to restore your tubes??? Very different, would definitely wait until 35 for that.

  • Reyna
    Reyna 3 days ago

    I hate how people nowadays see getting married as a chore. I see being married as being with your best friend 24/7 "getting married young is like leaving the party early" why though? Why can't you stay at the party with your s/o and have an even better time

  • Olivia S.
    Olivia S. 3 days ago

    I’ve know for a while that if I have children, they’ll be adopted. I’ve heard stories of women who wanted to get they’re tubes tied but doctors refused to do the operation because they weren’t married, or required permission from their partner. I was very surprised that Afrika found a doctor that would do the procedure when she is in her 20s. Why should anyone have a say about what a women does with her body. It’s like the issue with abortion. Why do people feel they are entitled to an opinion on whether or not a woman gets her tubes tied, or gets an abortion?

  • ci rob
    ci rob 3 days ago +1

    That's why the generation is falling apart and becoming corrupt and sinful, further away from god, they are turning away from gods commandments , it's all about materialistic values rather than spiritual values , society and the media play a huge role in this generation , the reason for this is because of the separation of the church from the state so the traditional /morality/gods laws isnt implemented and mans desires and sins are put forth and practiced ,this is what's causing the fall of society

  • lol dei wtf
    lol dei wtf 3 days ago +19

    “One child just to experience it” it’s as if she’s treating a child like sky diving or flying out of the country 🤨

  • So Majesticals
    So Majesticals 3 days ago

    There’s nothing wrong with motherhood. But it should be a facet of femininity rather than the definition of it.

  • idk what ever
    idk what ever 3 days ago

    Ya and men don't have to live up to a surten awhay that have to look, sit,act,ect

  • Madison Mandel
    Madison Mandel 3 days ago

    Some women just aren’t meant to be moms

  • U A
    U A 3 days ago

    I lovedd this episode 🙏🏿😭😭

  • Amy Archer
    Amy Archer 3 days ago

    I guess I’m just traditional. I want to get married and have children. It’s something I actually desire. Thinking about that part of my future makes me really happy. I also want to be able to be fully independent. Which is why I’m on the path to becoming a doctor.

  • Reggy Fields
    Reggy Fields 3 days ago

    Maybe it’s just me (my opinion) but Annemarie is so weak and old school it’s sad to see but I guess it works for her. I wish she wouldn’t expect that for others tho

  • Dexter Vlash
    Dexter Vlash 3 days ago

    Afrika's Mom's views of men and "their jobs" is what's dividing men and women today. I think that should also be a show if it's already not one.

  • Chris Parsons
    Chris Parsons 3 days ago +4

    For the millionth time, why can we not get a microphone for the announcer?!

  • JasMontrell
    JasMontrell 3 days ago +1

    Chelsie saying Afrika is all knowing was the ultimate statement of me throwing my phone 📱😵

  • Rayndom Nayme
    Rayndom Nayme 4 days ago

    Why do people keep commenting about adoption like it’s the same thing. The cognitive dissonance is unbelievable.

  • CC
    CC 4 days ago

    With corporations taking over, rampant social media, increased materialism and destruction of the environment I just cannot bring a child into the world.