How to become more confident -- lay down on the street for 30sec | Till H. Groß | TEDxDonauinsel

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  • Опубликовано: 6 окт 2014
  • This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED Conferences. Till talks about how he overcame many of his own fears and how everybody can step out of their comfort zone. It all started with Till lying down on the floor in a public place. And it resulted into a world wide movement called "Comfort Zone Crusher". Till explains his psychological concept of comfort zone crushing and how it helps so many people to tackle their fears.
    Till H. Groß … wildly crushes comfort zones.

    As soon as Till finished high-school he took his education in his own hands. After reading the whole psychology section of the small town library in his city, he set out to personally meet the authors of the books that thrilled him. In 2011 he started to consciously seek out the best psychologists, therapists and coaches all over Europe in order to learn from them. Having the best teachers possible enabled him to give talks throughout Germany at the age of 19, hold a guest lecture at the University of Vienna at age 20 and conduct his own seminars, found a startup and work as a coach at the age of 21. Now he’s helping hundreds of people all over the world to tackle their fears and step out of their comfort zone.
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  • niranjan reddy
    niranjan reddy 14 дней назад

    Thanks. Noted this “ Lot of unhappiness comes to you when you start comparing with other people “

  • Tory Z
    Tory Z 20 дней назад

    So basically to summarize this video practice behavioural therapy

  • max 10
    max 10 25 дней назад

    i am lucky i ended up here till!

  • Vasanth Kumar Kumar
    Vasanth Kumar Kumar 2 месяца назад

    Impressive

  • Meryem Ait lahyane
    Meryem Ait lahyane 2 месяца назад

    My first comment ever ! Went out my conforte zone. Like plz

  • Tickle star
    Tickle star 2 месяца назад

    comfort zone challenge for me -
    1) Answer a question in class
    2) Showing up in practical with calmness.
    3) To speak in front of people like speech in interesting topics.
    4) Doing madness everyday

  • Tickle star
    Tickle star 2 месяца назад

    I like his accent it's so cute 😘😘😘

  • Tickle star
    Tickle star 2 месяца назад

    I like his accent it's so cute 😘😘😘

  • pat winn
    pat winn 2 месяца назад

    You're wonderful Till, you moved me to move!

  • Stanlaire
    Stanlaire 3 месяца назад

    this video changes my life, Now i'm a pro!

  • Leonardo Sevilla
    Leonardo Sevilla 3 месяца назад

    hi

  • Jana Sokolová
    Jana Sokolová 3 месяца назад

    Very inspiring speech, lets start tomorrow :)

  • Кристиян Григоров
    Кристиян Григоров 3 месяца назад

    Is this working ? :D

  • Reda Kamel
    Reda Kamel 4 месяца назад

    Sooo great talk .. i think it is gonna help me a lot to overcome my fears ^ ^

  • Saurabh Lonkar
    Saurabh Lonkar 4 месяца назад

    comfort zone challenge....was he discoverer of blue whale game....?

  • iiLegend_27
    iiLegend_27 4 месяца назад +1

    Cuties

  • Mohamed Lakhyar
    Mohamed Lakhyar 4 месяца назад

    Good idea ..

  • Matthius Hanna
    Matthius Hanna 5 месяцев назад

    HI Till wie gehts dir? Ich bin ein mega Fan von dir, und habe auch eine 100 Tage Ablehnungschallenge hinter mir :) Wollte mal fragen ob du das immer noch machst,da ich nix im internet finde...
    Bitte um kurze Antwort
    Beste grüße
    Matthius

  • Mavisss K
    Mavisss K 5 месяцев назад

    Before it got started I had to watch those looong eds. WTF?!

  • adjfo
    adjfo 5 месяцев назад

    I've always wanted to go to a karaoke by myself but I haven't...

  • rahul ajayan
    rahul ajayan 5 месяцев назад

    This time nobody can say "there is no proof".. Because he did it and people did it... And I'm doing it now....

  • Subash Neupane
    Subash Neupane 5 месяцев назад

    This guy is so charming, attractive....

  • Kamilė Kakariekienė
    Kamilė Kakariekienė 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you! Awesome video! It has just encouraged me to go out of my comfort zone!

  • suraj amom
    suraj amom 6 месяцев назад

    Awesome !!!!!!!!

  • Rabiet
    Rabiet 6 месяцев назад

    MOm's SPagHetTI

  • demigod charles
    demigod charles 6 месяцев назад

    7:42 that mouth is daydreaming somewhere hhmmmm

  • Mushiat
    Mushiat 7 месяцев назад

    Oh, you were that weird guy on the ground while I was waiting for my train.

  • bob porter
    bob porter 7 месяцев назад

    Nice to see a ted talk comment zone where the girls aren't derping out over the guy being cute.

  • Take Action Today
    Take Action Today 7 месяцев назад +1

    I'm doing lots of challenges on my channel right now! who is watching in 2018???

  • Ayushi Acharya
    Ayushi Acharya 7 месяцев назад

    love this comfort zone challenge 💕

  • Min Yoongiisangel
    Min Yoongiisangel 7 месяцев назад

    Great and super useful video. I hate this anxious and nervous feeling so much that I don't step up out my comfort zone so much. And I've noticed that it only became worst. I've got scared of a lot of stuff and developed sort of social phobia. Although years back of course I was nervous but I was able to for example talk in front of a big audience or be on stage. And now I fear of everything. My best friend is getting married in August and I almost wanted not to go there just because I was scared of all this new people. I just really hate being like that. So after watching this video I hope it'll get better.
    P.S. I've got this event tonight. And it's going to be a lot of important people and I'm sooo nervous already. But now I know I should do it for it to become better someday.

  • Dikshit Gupta
    Dikshit Gupta 8 месяцев назад

    So sad Till is killing his channel . Just saw that post on Facebook group.

  • Chanmony Miller
    Chanmony Miller 8 месяцев назад

    I do this already sometimes. Well, not lying in the street - I'll have to try that. But I love to dance, and sometimes I will even dance in public. I've danced with two friends on the pedestrian mall at my college while others were going to class. Or one time I was in the cafeteria and I really wanted to dance to a certain song. I asked my friends if I should, and the guy behind me, who I didn't know, said I should go for it. So I did, and it was fun. I've lived for so long under the fear of what someone else will think that I do not want to let that stop me anymore. Sometimes I master my fear better than others, but I am a lot more confident than I used to be.

  • right things
    right things 8 месяцев назад +1

    I have done so many silly things unconciously and felt embarrsed 😌😌 but now it's time to do thoes silly things with full of awarness to build by confidence😅🙄😄

  • Nirav Rathod
    Nirav Rathod 8 месяцев назад

    This will 100% change my life
    First comment on you tube
    Thanks a lot

  • Cece Kaburu
    Cece Kaburu 8 месяцев назад

    Best talk so far

  • Ashwin Somkuwar
    Ashwin Somkuwar 8 месяцев назад

    Awesome video man 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻 I will definitely try this

  • Shubham Srivastava
    Shubham Srivastava 9 месяцев назад

    the trick is 'besharam ho jaao... ' 😎

  • K. J.
    K. J. 9 месяцев назад

    Did it! In Florence in front of the dome. It was amazing!

  • SaraK
    SaraK 10 месяцев назад

    At first his voice annoyed me, trough half of the video I started to love it. Weird, lol

  • Stanlaire
    Stanlaire 10 месяцев назад

    magnifique

  • Billy Walsh
    Billy Walsh 10 месяцев назад

    Palms are sweaty knees week arms are heavy there's vomit on his sweater already mom's spaghetti

  • Muneeb Ahmed
    Muneeb Ahmed 10 месяцев назад

    This has to be the most useful & productive video I’ve ever watched in my entire RU-clip History!

  • Bilegt Shurkhuu
    Bilegt Shurkhuu 10 месяцев назад

    I did it in China!!! A taxi run over me !!! Now I am disabled :_(

  • Daniel Duchek
    Daniel Duchek 10 месяцев назад +1

    No more low confidence yeahhh

    • Daniel Duchek
      Daniel Duchek 10 месяцев назад

      I do not like and comment my own comment ?-)

  • gabe Zeuss
    gabe Zeuss 10 месяцев назад

    I HAVE A TREMENDOUS FEAR OR DEATH.... IMMA GO LIE DOWN IN THE MIDDLE OF THE TRAIN TRACKS

  • samar jain
    samar jain 10 месяцев назад

    in India?

  • Cuong Phan
    Cuong Phan 10 месяцев назад

    He has the similar look and facial expressions of Jennifer Lawrence as if he's her brother or twin.

  • Sarah Lovell
    Sarah Lovell 11 месяцев назад

    Honey, that accent though....

  • Conceptual Bannerman
    Conceptual Bannerman 11 месяцев назад

    Do one thing everyday which scares you and that's kid How I took engineering .

  • Ohkapi
    Ohkapi 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you I up for the these challenge things... thanks! greetings from Macau

  • JonAaargh
    JonAaargh 11 месяцев назад

    I hate his accent..:c

  • peng xuemei
    peng xuemei 11 месяцев назад

    I think it very difficult to do in Japan

  • A.D. B
    A.D. B 11 месяцев назад

    I say, do it in a place where you know some of the people, LOL

  • World - Best & Worst
    World - Best & Worst 11 месяцев назад

    Nice info .

  • Alex Marshall
    Alex Marshall Год назад

    I want to know what the most daring thing you've ever done is, in your exposure therapy adventure.

    • Bone Cock
      Bone Cock 5 месяцев назад

      Finger his prostate.

  • Fm Az
    Fm Az Год назад

    We are trying to break the humankind limits toward shameful actions and make it normal and act like nothing happened ... Very smart

  • Veraj verma
    Veraj verma Год назад

    Fabulous Ted talk. Really liked it.

  • Xiao Yifeng
    Xiao Yifeng Год назад

  • Trader Jedi
    Trader Jedi Год назад

    I talked to my mom for the first time, im getting more confident

  • Rahul Sikka
    Rahul Sikka Год назад

    I will do it

  • Mark l
    Mark l Год назад

    He needs some water

  • Deno P
    Deno P Год назад

    This was rly helpful!!

  • Gloful 1
    Gloful 1 Год назад

    I LOVE THIS VIDEO 😭😭

  • Jon Snow
    Jon Snow Год назад

    i left college because of my comfort ,,going everyday to college (people are watching, was heart raising)
    now i'm feeling very sad, i have nothing to do,, whole day just youtube
    i killed my career with my own hand

  • TOTAL_STUPIDITY
    TOTAL_STUPIDITY Год назад

    Best talk ever.

  • Gabriel Antonio
    Gabriel Antonio Год назад +1

    Notes - Comfort Zone Challenges
    > We have also experienced FEAR
    > We have also acted despite fear
    1- Not as scary as you thought
    2- You did so many times that it stopped being scaring
    How to become more confident? How to stop caring thinking what other people think of you? How not to be hold back by fear?
    Answer: Lay down on the street for 30 seconds.
    > Background <
    In high school, speaker appeared to be confident from the outside, but from the inside he was very nervous. Why? Huge fear of rejection, not being cool, and exposed as weak.
    His old strategy: avoidance. For example, not go to party that he didn’t know anybody. Or he would drag his friends along with him so that he can get approval.
    After high school, he started to get into psychology. He started to learn from the best psychotherapists.
    Came across with Comfort Zone Challenges. Fast way to progress in business.
    Definition: challenges that you consciously put yourself in situations that make you feel embarrassed or insecure. You do it over and over until you stop thinking what other people think.
    [Similar to exposure therapy.]
    Explanation why it works: autonomic nervous system fires a fear response. You cannot control it consciously. This system learns to respond anxiously to situations that are not dangerous.
    So you STAY with the feeling until your autonomic nervous system learns that it is not dangerous.
    First comfort zone challenge (lay down on the subway station): he was procrastinating because he had a fear response, but then had an a-ha moment: “those really good excuses will always be there.” If he allowed those rationalizations to hold him back, he would never do it.
    Three things he noticed:
    1- Weird looks (Not as scary as he thought)
    2- Confused people
    3- Majority of people didn’t even look
    Got more relaxed. After 1 minute, all anxiety vanished. Got in the train with a big smile on his face.
    > Made a list of all fears and tapped into them. Some went away quickly, others took long to overcome.
    Online community: comfort zone crusher.
    International movement
    3 three things he learned
    > Consciously doing comfort zone challenge make you get into the habit of doing the uncomfortable
    Ignore excuses
    Go through discomfort
    Bleeds into other areas (gym, studying)
    > Relationship to fear completely changed
    He still has fears
    It is not a magic pill
    Even if he wants to do something but has fear, he still does it.
    > Happiness
    Unhappiness usually comes from:
    1- From comparison
    CZC makes you care less about others.
    2- From “perfect self”
    If you do CZC, you’re in the process of getting there. End of the day: “I have made a step closer to this perfect version.”
    Conclusion
    > Exposure therapy comes from the 50’s
    > Vision: make this knowledge accessible to people
    > Fear and anxiety connects us. And this is a comforting thought.
    Do something outside of your auto-pilot. This gives an adventure spice to your life.
    “Do one thing everyday that scares you.”
    Thanks for the awesome talk =)

  • Wrecx
    Wrecx Год назад +1

    I laid on the street for 30 seconds, now it's my second home!

  • I'm Dirty Dan
    I'm Dirty Dan Год назад

    TedTalk has change dramatically, not 100% good, not 100% bad

  • Arpit kumar
    Arpit kumar Год назад +1

    That was really awesome ‘Do one thing daily that scares you’,I would also try to come over my fear like this.
    Thanks a lot for that.
    And ya “Comfort zone challenge “ was also nice.

  • 25mrkeys
    25mrkeys Год назад

    iKnow iCan’t be the only one who hears Arnold Schwarzenegger 😭😭😭

  • Uckakok
    Uckakok Год назад

    The thing I was looking for!

  • Sam Plumb
    Sam Plumb Год назад

    He sounds like Arnold

  • karim baroni
    karim baroni Год назад

    Incredible show ......
    It was really a fantastic speech.

  • Love Lyrics
    Love Lyrics Год назад

    It is an initial challenges like blue whale game...

  • Braden bellinger
    Braden bellinger Год назад

    Knees weak, palms are sweaty, arms are heavy

  • Rainy
    Rainy Год назад

    I did it! 4 times today :D

  • Otanduw
    Otanduw Год назад +1

    Took 45 years to learn this. Wish I saw this when I was 15.

  • Smart Yoshi!
    Smart Yoshi! Год назад

    if you have good looking , you just gonna have good confidence by urself.

  • 33Chapter
    33Chapter Год назад

    Everything he said I've faced in a way that is much more intense than what they can imagine. Yet I was able to overcome all that and was lauded with reverence. I became the one who was feared instead of the one who feared. If you follow my way it will be much harder than what he calls you to but if you succeed then you will be legendary.

  • Lyriks7
    Lyriks7 Год назад

    I lied down in the metro station...Someone decided to get the metro police to talk to me...fun😂

  • danix
    danix Год назад

    Masturbation.

  • franz meixner
    franz meixner Год назад

    Is this Talk a confidence challenge? 😂

  • Navya
    Navya Год назад

    was this inspired from "the notebook"...

  • Qc Manager
    Qc Manager Год назад

    wise words man good job

  • vsleboss cacakaka
    vsleboss cacakaka Год назад

    Before buying on gearbest, know that it's thieves.
    They do not repay,
    on google search for "Thieves Gearbest".

  • Divyanshu Deoli
    Divyanshu Deoli Год назад

    This guys is a good person as i saw him in his video with mark manson and he did not overshined him talking about
    anxiety

  • gabrial autromistonionter
    gabrial autromistonionter Год назад

    hey im not caring huhahauahauauhhd i can comment anything huahhajahas

  • pictoushead
    pictoushead Год назад

    the only thing with this particular thing is people might think you are hurt or need help

  • Ready Aim Fire
    Ready Aim Fire Год назад

    such a beautiful soul, and very cute too. thank you so much for this video babe ❤

  • Hari Charan
    Hari Charan Год назад

    Doing this in india is the biggest achievement anyone can do .....u know what i mean if you are an indian!!!!😅

  • Weronika
    Weronika Год назад

    really great speech!!

  • Aran Knowles
    Aran Knowles Год назад

    Great. If our comfort zone is, arbitrarily speaking, 0.5 miles in radius, it's healthy to step just outside out of that and grow accustomed to the dissonance our bodies feel when outside of the comfort forcefield. Soon enough, our forcefield will expand to accommodate the new territory, and voila, we'll grown and become stronger.
    It's all in the mind, isn't it? It's never the environment that affects us, it's our personal interpretation of the environment that affects us.

  • omg hey there
    omg hey there Год назад

    if someone is so weak and faggoty that they can't o anything, they may as well kill themselves before they are victimized their whole life. Nothing worse than a weak person.

  • jerry pollack
    jerry pollack Год назад

    I actually did this a while ago in the middle of a busy school day at UCLA. I didnt get any confidence boost. I felt pretty embarrassed tbh

  • Laura G
    Laura G Год назад

    Very helpful 😀

  • Nicholas C.
    Nicholas C. Год назад

    excellent

  • La vita E bila
    La vita E bila Год назад

    Thanks

  • jonny bedford
    jonny bedford Год назад

    Amazing

  • Mai Reyna
    Mai Reyna Год назад

    hmmmm i'll try :) little by little