7 Ways to Make a Conversation With Anyone | Malavika Varadan | TEDxBITSPilaniDubai

  • Опубликовано: 11 янв 2016
  • “We mustn’t speak to strangers.” Malavika Varadan, challenges this societal norm, by presenting 7 ways to make conversation with anyone.
    RJ extraordinaire, Malavika Varadan, creates waves quite literally with her morning show, Breakfast No.1 on City 101.6. An avid fitness enthusiast, positivity ninja and drama queen, she has chiseled a benchmark in the radio industry. At TEDxBITSPilaniDubai she will choose to redefine connections.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 9 246

  • Rajeev Kumar
    Rajeev Kumar 12 часов назад

    Buddhism embarks upon getting isolated n conversation is a hindrance for spiritual growth.. that's why we most of are naturally introverts.. and because of egoistic competition we have to follow artificial path..😎🎃😂

  • Mike Khan
    Mike Khan День назад

    anyone in 2019?

  • Naincy Jain
    Naincy Jain День назад

    And now I know where I was lacking in communication, I listen to reply - not listen to listen. Lesson learned, always be in the conversation, be in the moment.

  • TimeFliesAway
    TimeFliesAway 3 дня назад

    I think she’s a Gemini

  • swati sanil
    swati sanil 3 дня назад

    I like Malvika's voice. So convincing.

  • Rikkz Aires
    Rikkz Aires 3 дня назад

    Who's here to confess his messed mind!?😱

  • Ahmad Imtiaz
    Ahmad Imtiaz 5 дней назад

    Now quit youtube and go and talk to someone.

  • Sam Brewer
    Sam Brewer 8 дней назад

    What does any of this have to do with condensation?

  • Shoyi Balwani
    Shoyi Balwani 8 дней назад

    Her communication skills. Yes I not knowing her but her communication skills , that smile on her face.❤ , her little jokes to make the environment comfortable, her content , her energy and positive vibes influenced me to comment and to follow her.❤💕💕💕💕❤

  • Moneca Redmon
    Moneca Redmon 8 дней назад


  • ravinder kumar
    ravinder kumar 9 дней назад

    Thanks for sharing, but I noticed that correct words don't come in mind at that time,so what should I do for that moment?

  • Bekee Rebecca
    Bekee Rebecca 10 дней назад

    really love this

  • mm u
    mm u 10 дней назад +2

    Amazing,This girl looks and talks in an attractive way.Hope I can talk as confident as her someday

  • Mjestic Beats
    Mjestic Beats 11 дней назад

    Im only here for that hot desi mama

    VINAY KR. 11 дней назад +1

    Who came here, Because she looks like *"Rihanna"!!!!* 😂😂😂

  • Rahul Bera
    Rahul Bera 12 дней назад

    Anyone 2k19 😃 !!

  • Swarup Dey
    Swarup Dey 14 дней назад

    Wow this Girl.....

  • Steve
    Steve 16 дней назад

    Great Preso Malavika! I realize this is a 3 year old post, but if you're still single, I want to meet you!

  • Océanne Poirier-Joanette
    Océanne Poirier-Joanette 16 дней назад

    I love her! Wow

  • Anirudha Kulkarni
    Anirudha Kulkarni 17 дней назад

    I realized she is so confident because she is that beautyful. just look at me😞

  • mahesh kanagula
    mahesh kanagula 18 дней назад

    Malavika.. 👏👏👏

  • lazyism dee
    lazyism dee 20 дней назад

    I don't have ppl to talk

  • Srajal Neware
    Srajal Neware 20 дней назад

    Any one in 2019

  • Sunil Gogoi
    Sunil Gogoi 21 день назад

    This video only demotivate any one . she is fully act bad . this she advice only gives mentally problems person. That's not for general man ...

  • Ishmam Rahman
    Ishmam Rahman 21 день назад

    To anyone who's tried this...
    Does this work?


    Excellent mam

    ASADUL SK 22 дня назад

    I am Asadul Sk

  • Debanjan Mani
    Debanjan Mani 22 дня назад

    UH ...SHE'S HOT

  • Turbo Booster
    Turbo Booster 22 дня назад

    She’s alright 👌🏼

    ASAAD ALJAYASHY 23 дня назад

    How can I get subtitle this lecture word

  • srikanth vilasarapu
    srikanth vilasarapu 23 дня назад

    I really like this talk. excellent. And these are good tips to start a conversation with a stranger. I like Malavika's smile.

  • Pullen Pandari
    Pullen Pandari 23 дня назад

    I have wasted first 10 minutes reading comments

  • Gaurav Gangwar
    Gaurav Gangwar 24 дня назад

    Some things you take

  • Heba Mosa
    Heba Mosa 25 дней назад


  • Irfan Hikmatiar
    Irfan Hikmatiar 26 дней назад

    i am totally agree with 'be present'. Nowaday poeple are soo busy with their phone, and they think that they still could present in the conversation while keep opening phone,, in fact it won't be happen.. Human can't do multi tasking like a computer..

  • HP C.f.
    HP C.f. 27 дней назад

    it's not our business to ask personal questions

  • Elcaptain Ammari
    Elcaptain Ammari 28 дней назад

    That is just pretending.

  • Muslimbek Yuldoshev
    Muslimbek Yuldoshev 28 дней назад

    The speech is so positive. I liked it

  • sergio Nunez
    sergio Nunez 28 дней назад

    Also be a pretty girl....

  • Sadie Besson
    Sadie Besson 28 дней назад


  • Aleks Martini
    Aleks Martini 29 дней назад

    Indian accent is such a put off

    • Athreale
      Athreale 21 день назад

      How is her accent a 'put-off'?

  • Ekmeğin Üzerindeki Kötü Küf
    Ekmeğin Üzerindeki Kötü Küf 29 дней назад

    Özge Özkan ve Figen Ergürbüz'e teşekkürler.

  • prabhat dara
    prabhat dara 29 дней назад

    Your voice is very catchy...

  • jaswinder singh
    jaswinder singh 29 дней назад +1


  • Angel Casta 5
    Angel Casta 5 29 дней назад

    I love when she smiles

  • Ampwich
    Ampwich Месяц назад

    Me: I like how when you smile, your nose smiles and your whole being smiles
    Her: I have to go.....

  • Ampwich
    Ampwich Месяц назад

    This doesnt really help.....what if its someone I know and see regularly but just dont know how to get to know them better and vise versa? All I say is h how are you, handshake, what did you do this week......thats it. And its awkward to make deep conversation on the spot....

  • Joshua Kuter
    Joshua Kuter Месяц назад

    Hey I just saw your duration was 15:23 acts (2:31,2:35,) and that’s why I feel compelled to say what I am about to say! Jesus Christ loves you, He died for you, God wants to restore your life making it more abundant, it does not matter where you are at in life nor who you are the promise of God is for everyone. If you would love to read where in the Bible I was referring this from it was acts 2:31-41 that sequence of verses shows how you can become saved by God! Have a good one God bless you!

  • Harry Pierpont
    Harry Pierpont Месяц назад

    Annoying accent

    • Harry Pierpont
      Harry Pierpont 21 день назад

      +Athreale how is that cruel I just find her voice annoying

    • Athreale
      Athreale 21 день назад

      Her accent is beautiful, you're cruelty is what's annoying here.

  • Aditya Bora
    Aditya Bora Месяц назад

    wow !!what a confidence she had

  • Kusum Trivedi
    Kusum Trivedi Месяц назад

    If we follow all that....dont we become people pleasers......if u agree.....thumb on the thumbs up...😁😁

  • thai leminh
    thai leminh Месяц назад

    Where does she come from ?

  • Zohaib Khan
    Zohaib Khan Месяц назад +8

    She’s hot though..

  • jukebox 752
    jukebox 752 Месяц назад

    why does approach anxiety usually get the best of me..smh

  • Rathod Sanjay
    Rathod Sanjay Месяц назад


  • Vivek Tiwari
    Vivek Tiwari Месяц назад

    I love your way of speaking..and smiling on your face

  • Kevin Fuk
    Kevin Fuk Месяц назад

    Make an insincere small talk with me and I'll blow your brains out.😊

  • Mohammed Faraz
    Mohammed Faraz Месяц назад

    you see we find best friends because we hate the same teacher

  • Mohammed Faraz
    Mohammed Faraz Месяц назад

    one great person told me not laugh at the first meet so that you become the decision maker

  • Death Son
    Death Son Месяц назад

    Me: She's THICC!
    Everyone else: I'm an introvert.


    This video change my thoughts it's very important for my job who meet alot of strangers every day...
    I like when u say look strangers as a new good book
    And most of first conversation for me is like filling the form, knowing everything about that new person .awesome..

    The EMPEROR Месяц назад +1

    Roses are red
    Violets are blue
    There is always an Indian
    Better than you.

  • ajay ghose
    ajay ghose Месяц назад

    You are ramarkable mam, such a great knowledge

  • Amartya Bhattacharya
    Amartya Bhattacharya Месяц назад

    I always feel extroverts are energetic bunch of waste of space.

  • Kakorot Skywalker
    Kakorot Skywalker Месяц назад +1

    Really well explained lesson
    It helped me a lot and I hope it'll help me next time I talk to someone

  • My world for you sagheer ahmad
    My world for you sagheer ahmad Месяц назад

    She is sooo cute..😍😍😍

  • suraj Aditya
    suraj Aditya Месяц назад

    The person like me must follow the 7 rules
    Especially one that " Be Present"

  • Zero LB
    Zero LB Месяц назад

    Ask the question "where do you live" to an Indian girl 😂😂😂

  • Pviews iq
    Pviews iq Месяц назад

    Where do you all come from? Rep your country 😁✌🏾

  • Rashid Ahmad
    Rashid Ahmad Месяц назад

    Great speech

  • Mahamoud Irshad
    Mahamoud Irshad Месяц назад

    “Mee-too” ended in Relationship ❤️

  • liffi D monky
    liffi D monky Месяц назад


  • Rahul Gautam
    Rahul Gautam Месяц назад

    I wanna meet this lady

  • Kate Arroyo
    Kate Arroyo Месяц назад

    I don't understand anyone saying her speech is boring. This is one of the few talks online that didn't bore me. You idiots, this is a talk so of course she has to elaborate her tips. Just look for tips on Google if you want to save time. Mga tanga.

  • Bạch Lãm
    Bạch Lãm Месяц назад

    so, look at her so very nice :)

  • Al Mamun
    Al Mamun Месяц назад

    I came here just for the comments about "me too".

  • Nehal Jhirmaria
    Nehal Jhirmaria Месяц назад

    I too love how when you smile 💙it's like your nose smiles and then your eyes smiles and then your ear smiles even your forehead smiles and suddenly you're whole smiling 💓

  • Pranam Bharat
    Pranam Bharat Месяц назад

    How did she made eye contact with taxi driver🤔🤔

  • Alibi fom
    Alibi fom Месяц назад

    wow...miss I really change it..!!! n that's really intrstin....

  • Jason Le
    Jason Le Месяц назад

    Watch this no info

  • eric homsy
    eric homsy Месяц назад +1

    1:13 you can tell she practiced that one in front of a mirror for like a month lmao

  • It’sjustElla
    It’sjustElla Месяц назад +1

    The first word floodgates part is great for Extroverts 😂 if I ask an introvert, they’d just say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ then I can’t be bothered because it would look like I’m just annoying them.

  • Komal Shahzadi
    Komal Shahzadi Месяц назад

    Amazing mame these 7 points are really simple and important for communication

  • Anmol Powar
    Anmol Powar 2 месяца назад

    i love how your nose smiles

  • Si1 2
    Si1 2 2 месяца назад +1

    Nice way of telling the story.

  • greywolf271
    greywolf271 2 месяца назад

    She gave this in Dubai ! Ever flown in an aircraft packed full of arabs ?

  • Marvel future fight gamer
    Marvel future fight gamer 2 месяца назад

    I love your voice

  • Faheem Raza Khan
    Faheem Raza Khan 2 месяца назад

    I can't start conversation with strangers that's why I watched but still on same position sorry to say but you don't have talent expect laughing.

  • Sawada Tsuna
    Sawada Tsuna 2 месяца назад

    great talk

  • Arif Rana
    Arif Rana 2 месяца назад

    I m agree with you

  • Arif Rana
    Arif Rana 2 месяца назад


  • Arif Rana
    Arif Rana 2 месяца назад

    Very nice

  • Abhishek Kumre
    Abhishek Kumre 2 месяца назад

    Hello friend
    Chai pe lo😂

  • pushpendra pundir
    pushpendra pundir 2 месяца назад

    It entralled not only my body,my soul toooooo

  • Manikanta Singuluri
    Manikanta Singuluri 2 месяца назад

    Ur smile is absolutely cute

  • Victor Grom
    Victor Grom 2 месяца назад

    Wow such a confident and charismatic speaker

  • Gaurav V Dubey
    Gaurav V Dubey 2 месяца назад

    Amazing video

  • Sabawon Van Den Berg Karimi
    Sabawon Van Den Berg Karimi 2 месяца назад

    Are the Dutch people watching this??
    Learn to make conversation please.

  • mango tango
    mango tango 2 месяца назад

    this woman is lovely fr

  • Imran Hossen
    Imran Hossen 2 месяца назад +3

    What is the definition or meaning floodgate?