7 Ways to Make a Conversation With Anyone | Malavika Varadan | TEDxBITSPilaniDubai

  • Опубликовано: 11 янв 2016
  • “We mustn’t speak to strangers.” Malavika Varadan, challenges this societal norm, by presenting 7 ways to make conversation with anyone.
    RJ extraordinaire, Malavika Varadan, creates waves quite literally with her morning show, Breakfast No.1 on City 101.6. An avid fitness enthusiast, positivity ninja and drama queen, she has chiseled a benchmark in the radio industry. At TEDxBITSPilaniDubai she will choose to redefine connections.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 9 162

  • Manikanta Singuluri
    Manikanta Singuluri 10 часов назад

    Ur smile is absolutely cute

  • Victor Grom
    Victor Grom 2 дня назад

    Wow such a confident and charismatic speaker

  • Gaurav V Dubey
    Gaurav V Dubey 2 дня назад

    Amazing video

  • Sabawon Safi
    Sabawon Safi 3 дня назад

    Are the Dutch people watching this??
    Learn to make conversation please.

  • mango tango
    mango tango 3 дня назад

    this woman is lovely fr

  • Imran Hossen
    Imran Hossen 6 дней назад +2

    What is the definition or meaning floodgate?

  • kutty media kutty
    kutty media kutty 6 дней назад

    U r not beautiful

  • SAI
    SAI 6 дней назад


  • Sarah Hall
    Sarah Hall 7 дней назад

    You don’t know how much I needed this talk !

  • bekind for you
    bekind for you 7 дней назад

    That girl make us do conversations down here...I love that video ,I love tedx ,they give us food for thought

  • Moon Jey
    Moon Jey 8 дней назад

    I wanna somone to make me practice

  • John
    John 8 дней назад

    I definitely wouldn't mind striking up a convo with this gorgeous presenter :)

  • Flávio Santos
    Flávio Santos 8 дней назад

    I would like to have someone for a conversation

  • Eswar Jajula
    Eswar Jajula 9 дней назад

    Love you baby

  • Quazi Nafis
    Quazi Nafis 9 дней назад

    whenever she says trust me have a shot

  • Henry Robinson
    Henry Robinson 10 дней назад

    Thanks Malavika Varadan for choosing to do such an awesome job making vital information pleasant

  • Rishabh Sharma
    Rishabh Sharma 10 дней назад +1

    Now I wanna start a conversation with her

  • mary pasala
    mary pasala 10 дней назад

    Super. I am going to start reading

  • Deep Khatri
    Deep Khatri 10 дней назад

    Who is she
    Damn hot damn beautiful
    And damn inspirational human

  • Parth Mehta
    Parth Mehta 10 дней назад

    Basically the best that I could listen to today! Thanks Malvika

  • Guruwinder Singh
    Guruwinder Singh 12 дней назад


  • Bhupendra Singh
    Bhupendra Singh 12 дней назад

    nobody is watching your show so why are you bhoking

  • Tawan Zad
    Tawan Zad 13 дней назад

    🤮 why do Indians overact that much?

  • CR srutheesh
    CR srutheesh 14 дней назад

    love it , nice talk Malavika ma'am..

  • William Newkirk
    William Newkirk 14 дней назад

    She’s hot

  • Manelson 211
    Manelson 211 14 дней назад

    Indians are the least people to lecture others on talking to strangers!!. They be cynical and paranoid of strangers af!!!

    RAM BAHADUR SHARMA 14 дней назад

    very well and truly realistic well done malvika

  • Eddie Márquez
    Eddie Márquez 15 дней назад

    Malavika Varadan, will you marry me?

  • muhammed shameel Katti
    muhammed shameel Katti 15 дней назад

    I need to attend TEDx Talks programme .can you please arrange entrance of TEDx Talks programme

  • Smit Patel
    Smit Patel 15 дней назад +2

    When she says hi, I remembered Monica from friends!!!

  • Muhammad Hussain
    Muhammad Hussain 15 дней назад

    She is awesome. In both ways, physically and conversationally.

  • Xn Dany
    Xn Dany 16 дней назад

    She's weird

  • Xn Dany
    Xn Dany 16 дней назад

    She's weird

  • ayush bhavsar
    ayush bhavsar 16 дней назад

    It really helpful to everyone because fear let us down to initiate conversation ...

  • sanju b
    sanju b 17 дней назад

    All points are to the point and concise & effective...I have done all these & trust me in 5 years I was able to attract over 200 girls, conversion was 126 GF....now can you beat that ....btw..love your energy Malavika...btw...did you buy your attire from mango or Zara ?

  • Pranav Bhushan
    Pranav Bhushan 17 дней назад

    Are you an Indian?

  • Gainful Tutorials
    Gainful Tutorials 18 дней назад

    Helpful for me.. thanks a lot explained in a super dooper way 👍

  • chinmaya k.s
    chinmaya k.s 18 дней назад

    tat was awesome .. feel like talking to you ..

  • talia alyssa
    talia alyssa 18 дней назад

    lol i’m not shy or awkward at school but if i’m at the store and some angsty group of teens my age tries to talk to me i get so uncomfy

  • Shiak Holy
    Shiak Holy 19 дней назад

    Entire the story will one part your smile was going another part really you have super smile mam 😘😘

  • lakhveer singh
    lakhveer singh 21 день назад

    Well ideas that inspires alot us .

    GAURAV SONI 21 день назад

    Great at all lovely talk

  • gaurav jha
    gaurav jha 21 день назад +1

    NYC topic for me

  • Mord Fustang
    Mord Fustang 22 дня назад

    Ummmm... She's quite attractive 🤔😁

  • Oumayma Rabah
    Oumayma Rabah 23 дня назад

    ♥♥♥♥ you are great
    The best thing for me was "listen to listen don't listen to reply"

  • Chirimiri
    Chirimiri 24 дня назад

    Thank you very much! :)

  • inceptional
    inceptional 24 дня назад

    "Once you've said the first word everything else just flows"
    Clearly you don't live in my [current] world.

  • Nenu Dinesh
    Nenu Dinesh 25 дней назад

    Why should we start conversation with anyone???...it's quite enough with necessary people!!..n spend time to the best!!

  • Syed Naseemshah
    Syed Naseemshah 25 дней назад

    i tried allot to do eyes contact but u didnt

  • RAJ kumar
    RAJ kumar 26 дней назад

    10:00 -10:08
    Best part 😍

  • Trinity Alexiaa
    Trinity Alexiaa 27 дней назад

    I'm a quiet person , I often find it hard to start conversations and how to keep them going . So I found these tips to be quite helpful.🤗

  • shalini prajapati
    shalini prajapati 28 дней назад

    Wow nice 7 lesson

  • Haider Khan
    Haider Khan 28 дней назад

    And hii

  • Haider Khan
    Haider Khan 28 дней назад

    You are so ÕŠŚÙM

  • Pete Pablo
    Pete Pablo 29 дней назад

    I'd smash.

  • Zephyr360
    Zephyr360 29 дней назад

    The world is a library.

  • Akshay Kumar
    Akshay Kumar Месяц назад

    Whenever I ask a any girl -What's your name? The only answer I get "Tumse Matlab"😂🤣

  • Priya Kadam
    Priya Kadam Месяц назад

    Loved it

  • Kegen Rodrigues
    Kegen Rodrigues Месяц назад

    8:34 reminds me of Margot Robbie

  • Tester Mailer
    Tester Mailer Месяц назад

    i want to know how to start converstation new person

  • Adam White
    Adam White Месяц назад

    Great content check out mines

  • Salma Sohim
    Salma Sohim Месяц назад

    You're a lovely person

  • Damian
    Damian Месяц назад

    "Hey, can I ask you a question? Do you like water? What?! Me too! you so get me!"

    INDERVIR HUNDAL Месяц назад

    conversation - adventure - opens door talk to strangers, milkman, grocers, etc and how1) hello, smile2) how are you3) what's going on4) personal question, interesting name and how long you lived and do you remember first day you lived, where do you come from and where do your family live5) politic, music, family6) Me, too I am from Delhi, I hate Delhi but try conversation on something similar - both in same place, same country, weather7) compliment - unique8) opinion - the oil prices is difficult, choose simple, how do you like your coffee?9) be present10) make eye contact11) name, place, animal, thing remember someone's name, pet names, children name, wife's name

  • TARS
    TARS Месяц назад

    Too loud

  • Niyam Acharya
    Niyam Acharya Месяц назад


  • Abdullah Khalid
    Abdullah Khalid Месяц назад

    She sounds like Margot Robbie from Suicide Squad.

  • Amylor Alwyn
    Amylor Alwyn Месяц назад

    she is jst amazing😳

  • Abdalgader Mohammed
    Abdalgader Mohammed Месяц назад

    I get confused, is this work for boy - boy relationship or for boy girl relationship! ? Lol
    I guess the first isn't straight

  • Sarfaraz Alam
    Sarfaraz Alam Месяц назад

    The way you talk its osam

  • prajjval Shivhare
    prajjval Shivhare Месяц назад

    Jhakkas.!!!!! 10/10

  • Raheel Zahidi
    Raheel Zahidi Месяц назад

    she is too good to speak... never heard anyone talk like this before

  • Israr Khan Official
    Israr Khan Official Месяц назад

    Thanks Almighty Allah He Gifted me all of these skills and i would love to meet strangers........

  • Israr Khan Official
    Israr Khan Official Месяц назад

    Super Splendent I have ever watched

  • Paul T. McKenna
    Paul T. McKenna Месяц назад

    Great talk and lesson ,Malavika, I enjoyed your personal stories and how you used them as examples to teach us, how to make conversations with anyone !

  • Ans Ahmad
    Ans Ahmad Месяц назад

    What if you say hi and the person do not reply

  • moon sun
    moon sun Месяц назад

    The personal questions it's inconvenient for me

  • moon sun
    moon sun Месяц назад

    Her accent is cute.

    COLD WATER Месяц назад

    She sounds like "camila cabello"💙

  • Anup Kumar Pandey
    Anup Kumar Pandey Месяц назад

    That point at 7:47 😀😀😀i'm from delhi 😘😘😘i hate delhi😬😬😬😬😬


    A lot of Thanks

  • Dr. MB
    Dr. MB Месяц назад

    Thank you Malavika

  • Anisah Lingga
    Anisah Lingga Месяц назад

    I'm fascinated by her beauty....really

  • Abhishek Raman Jha
    Abhishek Raman Jha Месяц назад

    1- First word
    2- Avoid small talk , you can ask personal questions
    3- find the me to ( now the campaign 😄)
    4- pay a unique and genuine compliment.
    5- Ask for an opinion (not on complicated topic)
    6- Be present, Make eye contact ( Don't start meditating
    7(Remember)Name ,place and other little but important things.
    "Talking to anyone is like reading a book" ☺
    Thank you.

  • Garima Verma
    Garima Verma Месяц назад


  • Vivek Sahu
    Vivek Sahu Месяц назад +1


  • Нина Вязникова
    Нина Вязникова Месяц назад

    well, frankly speaking, I knew nothing knew

  • prince entertainment
    prince entertainment Месяц назад

    its okay its not very important

  • Prashant Kp
    Prashant Kp Месяц назад

    I love the way of your talking

  • Tayyaba Fayyaz
    Tayyaba Fayyaz Месяц назад

    ThanQ Ma'am
    I learnt so much from this video & i love the you talk
    I will try to apply this in my conversation

  • Adam W
    Adam W Месяц назад

    This chick is hot I would love to meet her

  • Abhay Gupta
    Abhay Gupta Месяц назад

    Majedar tha

  • Vijay Lal
    Vijay Lal Месяц назад

    Trying to conquered the peak of conversation

  • Dr. Monique Vann
    Dr. Monique Vann Месяц назад

    This video is so helpful thank you so much for posting this. I am such a geek and I sometimes have a hard time connecting with people but I feel alot more confident now.

  • Waqas Jahangeer
    Waqas Jahangeer Месяц назад

    Nice acting...

  • Pravin Prajapati
    Pravin Prajapati Месяц назад

    wow. go girl (y)

  • Santosh kr
    Santosh kr Месяц назад

    Nice explanation but not up to mark,,, But also good!!!

  • ayushman bhalla
    ayushman bhalla Месяц назад

    i just know that she looks superhot.....

  • George Copter
    George Copter Месяц назад

    I really love this

  • mit gosai
    mit gosai Месяц назад

    What if u try to talk to em n they behave rudely ?