at the end it is not importan which job the do it is importan how much they earn and how happy they are i know so much doctors they are not happy and dont earn much money for so much responsibility.
@Lost Llamas yeah I can. Imagine somebody is on tiktok to distract them self and make new friends to have fun. Better scenario, how about all those celebrities on tiktok? You saying that is basically saying all them famous people suck. Imaging ur closest friend is going through something and they go on Tik tok and make it a distraction for themselves and start enjoying themselves, and you keep seeing comments shaming everyone on tiktok trying to entertain fans and enjoy themselves.
As a parent you always have to guide your children to the right path. Sometimes they don't know what they want. If I didn't push my daughter to study she would be having NO future, now that she finished UBC she thanks me every day.
Yes indeed that’s literally how my dad is, he literally slam dunks my head against concrete for not knowing news anchors or politicians that were famous and died before I was ever even born lol
I'm glad my parents don't have such high career expectations for me. They just want me to be a good person who's kind and happy with myself. I wish everyone had parents like that.
“So often children are punished for being human, children are not allowed to have grumpy moods, bad attitudes, disrespectful tones or bad days, yet we adults have them all the time. None of us are perfect, and we must stop holding children to a higher standard of perfection than we can ourselves.” -Anonymous That took forever write 😭
White parents : Be yourself Asian parents : be like your neighbors kid, your cousin, your bestfriend and the random kid you met at the mall Dear mum....how can I be all of that?
My parents put a lot of expectation on me and wouldn’t help me. They’d ridicule me and expect one way respect. I grew up cruel and stupid. I let a lot of people down. I’m ok now. I’m trying to help my parents.
Dont help them, they're assholes that want you to be perfect and just the way they want you to be. Live your life the way you want and dont give a fuck about what they think about you.
true my dad always calls me dumb even when I was a kid. all the time and now his piss off cause he thinks I'm self sabotaging myself since I never want to study, cause even if I do, I'll get called dumb and that's just what I am
Omg, this one was hilarious and so familiar! I'm independent and don't bother my parents with anything, yet my father acts like his children didn't accomplish anything. Just because we're not filthy rich and his sisters' kids married money.
When your parents aren’t successful but they get mad at you for not being successful- Edit: One I never thought so many people would reply. And two I should have mentioned, they tell their kids to be successful but when they say they want to have a job that isn’t as high paying, they call you a failure and a disgrace. They pressure you to do something you do not enjoy. Parents do want you to be better than them I completely understand that! But it doesn’t mean they have to put you on such high expectations. It can affect the child to overwork because they want their parents to be proud of them. You shouldn’t have to try hard for something just so that your parents appreciate you. If they don’t love you while your struggling they don’t love you at all. You shouldn’t have to succeed at great lengths just to feel that you matter.
I would never expect my children to be something that's crazy high up or stressful. They can be what they want, as long as they can get something that can support them and live happily
In this case, They haven't really turned out yet. The slob potentially has something on his mind or is depressed and can still turn out very succesful if he's getting better soon, the wannabe rapper can still improve in making actual good music and the gamer can start streaming and gains some viewers of, of his gaming content and even his personality or even make good edited gaming videos.
A good enough amount of people make a high amount of money from streaming and making RU-clip videos. Course most also have jobs small or big ones but stil
Everything aside, this alone completely explains why parents are always a little worried about children having dreams and ideas different from the ones they have in mind. There is NO Correct person between the kids and parents but we all just need to reach a middle ground. Parents may not always accept our choices, but we must always respect that.
@Tricia McIntosh No, just encourage them to become capable. You're the one treating them like shit, making them think it's okay to live life as a child
such a high respect for the parents 💜💛those kids who are struggling since young envy this one , i have all the freedom i want but its not easy , it is very very hard , id rather had a parents like this who is very strict and high expectation on me , its easy to get stress while studying than stress of studying while working for yourself . When you have a parents like this you dont need to worry about your bills and food and home and you can sleep in good bed , me? im with the family wherein i can do what i want but get stress with my own bills my own studies while working .
for me teach them to be independent and fimilar with the reality of the harsh aspects of life and then let them do whatever. cuz being forced into the right thing when ur not convinced is a recipe to failure/ depression
Money, fame, success, wealth is nothing compared to the amount of love you’ve given to make a loving family. The former can come and go, however relationship stay with you forever.
bro all of this for what...whatever my kid wants to be is what i will support them on...never will i be disappointed if they don’t turn out some way or the other
I'm Asian, and from all the Asian parent tik toks they can be pretty strict and have very high expectations. But my parents aren't like that and it makes me very grateful Edit:I'm sorry but, thank you for the likes
If I was the dad i'd honestly be pretty happy. Someone to slob around with Someone to game with Someone to sliten to music with If such is my family. Id be happy :)
That's ok. Because of your love and encouragement and support they will find the way to a brighter future. Your love and support as a parent will give them the strength. Peace and Blessings to you and your family 🙏☮️♥️
Me and my brother have both had parents who were nothing but loving, caring, and responsible. My brother just got accepted to Berkeley and I'm working on my Private Pilots License whole also aiming to get into the Naval Academy. It's not your son's It's you
If you are planning to become a Naval Aviator, good luck man! Thats so cool, I would like to become a naval aviator but my country doesn't have an actual navy or military :/
@Kaung Kyaw Don't talk Dumb -_- It's totally upto Kids mentality lol pressure will do nothing. It's best to let them figure out what they love doing and then make a career on it.
i ain’t really a tik Tok fan, but I rate these guys - the togetherness and all, and least they ain’t fully cringe like the others and are actually fun to watch cos of there creativity.
Even though they didn't turn out how you wanted make sure you celebrate their achievements. It's a small thing to do that make people happier than you would know.
I remember telling my parents that I really like drawing and that I wanna be an animator and draw arts. (Freelance). They were a little bit disappointed at first, but then when they saw that I actually like it and saw my arts. My mom paid for my animation and graphic design course so I could become who I want 🤧
My parents were like get high marks and join whatever college you want 😉 Me actually getting high marks and forced to join faculty of pharmacy 🙂 Now I actually love it 😍 , maybe they were right after all I wanted to be a vet , but they told me you're scared of dogs how are you gonna be a vet , and they are absolutely right 🤪
My older brother graduated from Harvard, became a doctor, went to war as a medic came back and became a lawyer. 😅So now I don’t have to do none of those things But every time he brags about his success I tell him he’s not Jonathan Kim😂- the guy who is a Doctor/Navy Seal/and Astronaut
You can look at their living environment and see this is a great man that adores and respects his wife and family immensely...and has a sense or humor.period💯😘😍😂
I cant excuse it , my dad is a high ranking officer in the state government , and my mom is an MSC is mathematics, and both are well respected and admired by their surrounding peiple, my dad has an expectation for me to become an IAS and he is sure that i will become one .
I'm a parent of 3. Oldest 21. This video hits home. You still love them & respect them for the good ppl they have turned out to be but lacking a bit in ambition & career success. I'm planning on what this dad did. Create a loving home & try to get along and obtain a home large enough to coexist in peace & continue to be a family. Love watching this family!
We can talk about how great our loved ones are and how much they’ve accomplished, and while that isn’t bad, those who truly love them have high expectations and works hard to get them there. Thanks Mom!
Kids expectations: a great dad with high responsibility
Reality: tiktokers.
True🥺
at the end it is not importan which job the do it is importan how much they earn and how happy they are i know so much doctors they are not happy and dont earn much money for so much responsibility.
@Lost Llamas yeah I can. Imagine somebody is on tiktok to distract them self and make new friends to have fun. Better scenario, how about all those celebrities on tiktok? You saying that is basically saying all them famous people suck. Imaging ur closest friend is going through something and they go on Tik tok and make it a distraction for themselves and start enjoying themselves, and you keep seeing comments shaming everyone on tiktok trying to entertain fans and enjoy themselves.
🤣😀😀😀😂
That was... rude...
If people listened to their parents there would only be 3 available Jobs today.
Doctor, Lawyer, Teacher.
Imma be a computer geek, not like “make sure it’s plugged in” i’m talking coding and maybe computer repair
@BKB- ArRoW DOWN umm u mean air hostess?
@BKB- ArRoW DOWN zoxoxoxox
For my parents it would be doctor, nurse, lawyer
As a parent you always have to guide your children to the right path. Sometimes they don't know what they want. If I didn't push my daughter to study she would be having NO future, now that she finished UBC she thanks me every day.
Dad: "son how old are you?"
Me: I'm 15 dad
Dad: "pathetic, when I was your age I was 22"
Yes indeed that’s literally how my dad is, he literally slam dunks my head against concrete for not knowing news anchors or politicians that were famous and died before I was ever even born lol
@TheGamingDevil me living in asia and knowing this joke-
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂🤣🤣
It’s Rocky sleeping with the chip still in his mouth for me 😂 😂 😂
It's Kies raging at the game for me
😂 😂
🥺😕😔
"Not everyone has to be successful. Let you're child grow it's talent. And never give up and it will get better."
- *Maya Asanin*
Mac and cheeese
Well however that was referred to children as it.
@salty itsghgh You are.
Well try to say I am more shorter way I'm not Albert Einstein.
There’s nothing more painful then when your parents say,
“Why didn’t you turn out like that?” or,
“Why can’t you be more like y/n?”
(Your friend)
Thats true
@aysx_. same 😭
When your mom says why can’t you be like your past self hurts
💗💗💗💗💗
The wannabe rapper part was funny look how he was rapping 😂😂
Yesterday,Winchester
Week
Ejkehejej
Ejkeh
Jekeh
😁😁😁
😂
🤣💣🤬😡
😂😂when I watch this family always laugh hard😂thank u this channel is my medicine ❤️
its so weird how parents automatically want their kids to play a high role in society and not just live a happy fulfilling life
@Tashi Dante BRUH your reply to the comment doesn't make sense as a reply -_-
They will be happy as long as you get a decent job and earn money for yourself and your family to live a happy and fulfilling life
@Tashi Dante Good point 👍
@Tashi Dante ong
I'm glad my parents don't have such high career expectations for me. They just want me to be a good person who's kind and happy with myself. I wish everyone had parents like that.
I don't have but .. I'm currently in my senior highschool and they are forcing me to become a doctor otherwise leave to study idk what to do y'all
Though I am Asian I am still the same as you well as of right now
Same
Tayna qr. Rm me
“So often children are punished for being human, children are not allowed to have grumpy moods, bad attitudes, disrespectful tones or bad days, yet we adults have them all the time. None of us are perfect, and we must stop holding children to a higher standard of perfection than we can ourselves.” -Anonymous
That took forever write 😭
but the generation of like this tend to care more than those children who can easily do what you say
Nah I just learned the easy way that adults are superior to us kids and we’re inferior
I can imagine 2040 where children littrerly control their parents, even the slightest scream to your child will be considered child abuse
Thats true
True that
This so awesome 😍 May God always protect this LOVABLE family..
This gives the same vibes as when you plan a conversation beforehand and the other person doesn't follow the script
Love your kid's for who they are!
White parents : Be yourself
Asian parents : be like your neighbors kid, your cousin, your bestfriend and the random kid you met at the mall
Dear mum....how can I be all of that?
I can feel you 😂😂
Ez just take their souls and somehow merged them with your body and you will have split personalities type
One of our favorite families to watch LOL.
Sammy is living like thug life .the best rapper in town . Family is great
I love you guys so much to see a happy family have fun you made my day
My parents put a lot of expectation on me and wouldn’t help me. They’d ridicule me and expect one way respect. I grew up cruel and stupid. I let a lot of people down. I’m ok now. I’m trying to help my parents.
Dont help them, they're assholes that want you to be perfect and just the way they want you to be. Live your life the way you want and dont give a fuck about what they think about you.
@QuitOak if your parents have high expectations but give no help, im pretty sure they are wrong to have them.
true my dad always calls me dumb even when I was a kid. all the time and now his piss off cause he thinks I'm self sabotaging myself since I never want to study, cause even if I do, I'll get called dumb and that's just what I am
@JJ Jackster if ge doesnt show respect neither will I
Same man...
Your family and the skits you do are hilarious. Love to all.
It's okay. We'll love them anyway! 🤗
Omg, this one was hilarious and so familiar! I'm independent and don't bother my parents with anything, yet my father acts like his children didn't accomplish anything. Just because we're not filthy rich and his sisters' kids married money.
So happy for you❤️❤️
What i wanted my dad to be : caring and loving, what he turned out to be : making fun of his children on tik tok to get clout
It’s a joke chill
Its called a joke
@Quosmo hypocrite
Obviously the kids were in on it. Chill tf out and take a joke
Man i never said that the kids weren't in on the tiktok I said that he was making fun of them for clout
No matter what they do or what job they have you should still love and support them because that’s what dads do
I can relate. Thank God they are good decent people!
This is the best Family channel I've ever seen so far 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣...Glad I stumbled across it
Bro that hand pistol from the rapper had me dying lol😂😂😂😂😂😂
When your parents aren’t successful but they get mad at you for not being successful- Edit: One I never thought so many people would reply. And two I should have mentioned, they tell their kids to be successful but when they say they want to have a job that isn’t as high paying, they call you a failure and a disgrace. They pressure you to do something you do not enjoy. Parents do want you to be better than them I completely understand that! But it doesn’t mean they have to put you on such high expectations. It can affect the child to overwork because they want their parents to be proud of them. You shouldn’t have to try hard for something just so that your parents appreciate you. If they don’t love you while your struggling they don’t love you at all. You shouldn’t have to succeed at great lengths just to feel that you matter.
🎯🎯🎯
This is what I always think........but just can't explain/express
If the parents wants their son to be successful, they need to raise them successfully
they probably want you to be better than them
Because they want us to achieve what they could not do, and they want us to be successful and happy
I FEEL YOUR PAIN DAD 🤦🏾♀️
It's not a mistake ✨ITS A MASTERPIECE ✨
The doctor without shoes is my favourite 🤣🤣😳🤣
Its not a mistake ✨its a MASTERPIECE ✨
I would never expect my children to be something that's crazy high up or stressful. They can be what they want, as long as they can get something that can support them and live happily
@Pi. Yoshi what so you can "borrow" their money? They don't need to be rich if they don't want to be doing a job they don't want too.
@Pi. Yoshi yes do you like ramen
@South Side I actually have one you see, it seems like you can’t take a joke 🥱
@South Side and please, use proper English not slang.
@South Side nah I’m good bud
You guys are the funniest! 🤣🤣🤣
LOWKEY THAT'S REAL TALK RIGHT THERE 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Is imagine thinking that you're such a good parent that all your kids are going to succeed in life hahaha relateable life goals
In this case, They haven't really turned out yet. The slob potentially has something on his mind or is depressed and can still turn out very succesful if he's getting better soon, the wannabe rapper can still improve in making actual good music and the gamer can start streaming and gains some viewers of, of his gaming content and even his personality or even make good edited gaming videos.
@0G awwwwwwwwwww
Honestly as long as you believe anything can be possible
A good enough amount of people make a high amount of money from streaming and making RU-clip videos. Course most also have jobs small or big ones but stil
Everything aside, this alone completely explains why parents are always a little worried about children having dreams and ideas different from the ones they have in mind. There is NO Correct person between the kids and parents but we all just need to reach a middle ground. Parents may not always accept our choices, but we must always respect that.
@Holy Crusader no man I believe in parents supremacy
@SuB8y29 oh u mean a career where 1 in a million make million dollars
@Purple Dog Studios Yeah a career where people make millions I think it should be respected
@Purple Dog Studios esports, ever heard of it?
Yeah my mom should respect my career choice to be “gamer”
But deep down, you know you love them, lol. Parents re the best ppl in your live
Some of you guys took this waay too serious...it was very funny... I see a man that loves his children Deeply.💯💝😘😀
Don’t expect too much from us, parents!
My expectation for my future kids are high for being gamers like me
Rapper= sound editor
Gamer = developer or visual design
Slop = crypto investor.
@Tricia McIntosh yes, we should.
@Clément "you're the one treating them like s***" if you say so
@Tricia McIntosh No, just encourage them to become capable. You're the one treating them like shit, making them think it's okay to live life as a child
@BlueMemes you see the context of his reply is that it's a retort to the comment which implies what I responded
@BlueMemes I apologize for filling in the blanks of what he implied
low key great family. nice work pops
I know that feeling 😂😇
such a high respect for the parents 💜💛those kids who are struggling since young envy this one , i have all the freedom i want but its not easy , it is very very hard , id rather had a parents like this who is very strict and high expectation on me , its easy to get stress while studying than stress of studying while working for yourself . When you have a parents like this you dont need to worry about your bills and food and home and you can sleep in good bed , me? im with the family wherein i can do what i want but get stress with my own bills my own studies while working .
PART Of me is on the Dads side. He just wanted his kids to have a good education and have a good life.
for me teach them to be independent and fimilar with the reality of the harsh aspects of life and then let them do whatever. cuz being forced into the right thing when ur not convinced is a recipe to failure/ depression
But ya accept the kids the way they are
I am sorry I should have not been so mean
@kk Dias I ain’t allowed to work yet but I’m past the age requirement
@Dog what is your profession?
Money, fame, success, wealth is nothing compared to the amount of love you’ve given to make a loving family. The former can come and go, however relationship stay with you forever.
Now this guy is saying the facts
@Sharky im so sorry for u..
ok
He cares for their future... that's love
You spitting BS
We have high hopes and just want the absolute best for our children.
bro all of this for what...whatever my kid wants to be is what i will support them on...never will i be disappointed if they don’t turn out some way or the other
I swear some parents be getting mad when their headcannon for their kids don’t turn out to be cannon 👀
It’s not a mistake ✨ it’s a masterpiece
I'm Asian, and from all the Asian parent tik toks they can be pretty strict and have very high expectations. But my parents aren't like that and it makes me very grateful
Edit:I'm sorry but, thank you for the likes
This is true
Lol I'm Asian too and no one is strict to their parents, they just have expectations
In just 4 days you have 2.6k likes 👍🏽 nice
Lucky
@camtwan1 Very :)
If I was the dad i'd honestly be pretty happy.
Someone to slob around with
Someone to game with
Someone to sliten to music with
If such is my family. Id be happy :)
We all over dream for our kids. Mine WAS going to be a vet until he decided a doctor was too much work.
They are so cool. your family looks so cool. House looks so good.
ITS NOT A MISTAKE ✨️ ITS A MASTERPIECE ✨️
That's ok. Because of your love and encouragement and support they will find the way to a brighter future. Your love and support as a parent will give them the strength. Peace and Blessings to you and your family 🙏☮️♥️
The dad is the best!!
The dad is the best!!
The dad is the best!!
The dad is the best!!
The cutest family ever....🥰🥰😁😘😘 love from india 🇮🇳
@Sandeep Maheshwari ur pfp jiggles
Btw i am american but i respect indians too😚
Bro gaming is also a career (as long as you are not just sitting at home just 'casually playing' it is a career too when you play professionaly!
Yo wtf?1!
I'm also INDIAN 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
That seems like a healthy family
I'm a Finance professional going to complete my law degree within a year. 😁
PS: No pressure on me from father as we lost him in 95.
Imagine being a kid and knowing you'd do the same thing 👁️👄👁️
He just wanted them to be successful hes alwaysed loved them❤
Me and my brother have both had parents who were nothing but loving, caring, and responsible. My brother just got accepted to Berkeley and I'm working on my Private Pilots License whole also aiming to get into the Naval Academy. It's not your son's It's you
@IHateMotionBlur _ guess I'll have to hope I'm a good pilot
Dying for your country ain't worth it
Haha so are my parents minus a step-dad but I'm an idiot so I'll be a corporate cog for the rest of my life
If you are planning to become a Naval Aviator, good luck man! Thats so cool, I would like to become a naval aviator but my country doesn't have an actual navy or military :/
Amen for that
If I become a parent I won’t set high expectations for my kids, because if I’m the father it wouldn’t be possible.
@Kaung Kyaw Don't talk Dumb -_- It's totally upto Kids mentality lol pressure will do nothing. It's best to let them figure out what they love doing and then make a career on it.
😂😂😂😂😂😂💣
Ha!
Exactly!
Parentgoals-Down the toilet with the rest of the expectations!!
i ain’t really a tik Tok fan, but I rate these guys - the togetherness and all, and least they ain’t fully cringe like the others and are actually fun to watch cos of there creativity.
I wanna hug that dad 🥺
Even though they didn't turn out how you wanted make sure you celebrate their achievements. It's a small thing to do that make people happier than you would know.
❤ That's Exactly right...Love them for Who they are, they could be gone in the blink of an eye 🙁
🤣🤣lolzz this is so accurate n relatable
The wannabe rapper 🤣🤣🤣🤣. He’s my favorite son! Sorry I love them all
I thought only Indian parent's think that way 😂😂😂
Moral of the story don't expect much from ur kids they'll only disappoint u🤣🤣
I remember telling my parents that I really like drawing and that I wanna be an animator and draw arts. (Freelance). They were a little bit disappointed at first, but then when they saw that I actually like it and saw my arts. My mom paid for my animation and graphic design course so I could become who I want 🤧
Aww that's so sweet!
If you want to be an artist you should really have a backup plan as 99% of artists don't get paid
@kei All the best for your future!
@Oomelete Gosh I relate so much, like on finals, she took away all my art supplies so tht I don't paint secretly
@DAMAI awww thank you
Just let them be who want them to be,if they want to be a rapper or gamer,then let them be.
Dreams to come true. But then you wake up and see reality. But hey being a gamer may win out the others.
Remember... your parent used to be the kid! Learn from them.
My parents were like get high marks and join whatever college you want 😉
Me actually getting high marks and forced to join faculty of pharmacy 🙂
Now I actually love it 😍 , maybe they were right after all
I wanted to be a vet , but they told me you're scared of dogs how are you gonna be a vet , and they are absolutely right 🤪
My older brother graduated from Harvard, became a doctor, went to war as a medic came back and became a lawyer. 😅So now I don’t have to do none of those things
But every time he brags about his success I tell him he’s not Jonathan Kim😂- the guy who is a Doctor/Navy Seal/and Astronaut
@HaqAttack _ 9 dafuq?
The comments is the WAR
Cool
I like your older brother he’s smart and got all the money 🤑😎
🤣🤣🤣
Does anyone notice when he trying to rap his face looks so funny🤣
I’m starting to think he had the kids to get him money after they got jobs
You can look at their living environment and see this is a great man that adores and respects his wife and family immensely...and has a sense or humor.period💯😘😍😂
BAHAJAHAHA
That's what kids are for 🤣🤣🤣
I cant excuse it , my dad is a high ranking officer in the state government , and my mom is an MSC is mathematics, and both are well respected and admired by their surrounding peiple, my dad has an expectation for me to become an IAS and he is sure that i will become one .
This is a great message
I'm a parent of 3. Oldest 21. This video hits home. You still love them & respect them for the good ppl they have turned out to be but lacking a bit in ambition & career success. I'm planning on what this dad did. Create a loving home & try to get along and obtain a home large enough to coexist in peace & continue to be a family. Love watching this family!
It's very funny 🤣😂😂
I'm laughing 😂😂😂😂😂
Doctor in pajama....... Hilarious 😂
I like it.
Graduate Student without Pants!
Lawyer without Shoes!
And Doctor bare Footed!!! 😂
Just support your kids. No matter what life choice they decide
❤️❤️❤️
@Cyk ye cristian dont do gay :(
@Derry akabane wait does Christianity not allow gay or are you just scared to tell her
Im gay and i dont wanna tell my mom since she cristian :(
This is the sign of all Asian parents!!😅😂
Just because someone graduated doesn't mean you're going to have a good life.
🤣🤣This is so true
Ur family is amazing
We can talk about how great our loved ones are and how much they’ve accomplished, and while that isn’t bad, those who truly love them have high expectations and works hard to get them there. Thanks Mom!