4 Reasons Why You Feel So ALONE

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  • Published on May 16, 2019
  • With this video, you will learn how to stop feeling lonely and depressed, and you'll understand why you feel so alone all the time, and the cure to it all. If you're looking for some motivation to stop feeling sad and to start living a happier life, this video is for you!
    Sources:
    www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/loneliness
    www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/intimacy-path-toward-spirituality/201804/are-you-wondering-why-youre-lonely
    medium.com/real-life-resilience/are-you-lonely-5130d25c002f
    www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/pieces-mind/201301/accepting-loneliness
    Music: "Piano Moment" from Bensound.com
    Thanks to Tristan Reed (writing), Troy W. Hudson (narration), and HowlingCreations (animation) for helping to create this video!
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  • Soft Irony
    Soft Irony 3 hours ago

    I feel alone not because i don't have anyone, its because everyone ignores me like i dont even........... exist!!!!! 😣

  • Manspence
    Manspence 11 hours ago

    Thank you so much for this video. It’s just what I needed.

  • INFINATI
    INFINATI 2 days ago

    I am so lonely that I dont even feel loneliness

  • treebeast
    treebeast 2 days ago

    I used to be a stable friend to this one amazing friend but then I had to go away for six months and now I'm a unstable friend for this amazing friend right now I'm giving this amazing friend of mine space but I would like to get the friendship we once had back can anyone give me any tips?

  • luke bothwell
    luke bothwell 2 days ago

    I'm just done I'd rather be alone than deal people again, people cause too much trouble, people are a cancer

  • Dish j
    Dish j 2 days ago

    999% true
    In 2020

  • Venom Melon
    Venom Melon 4 days ago

    If anybody here is feeling lonely, I'll gladly respond to RU-clip messages ranting about anything. I'm 13, but I'm chill with touchy subjects

  • Judgy Judy
    Judgy Judy 4 days ago

    I have good friends. Really, really, REALLY, good friends. But, I’ve been hurt by other friends that it makes me feel like sometimes I’m lonely. I don’t know if it’s because sometimes I get into fights over stupid things with a certain friend, and want to just yell at her and tell her how she makes me feel. But it’s like other people don’t know me as much as I know them. But I’m a happy person, and I really have no reason to be upset. I love my family, and don’t think I have depression.

  • simple boy
    simple boy 5 days ago

    Yes I am alone , because i am failure in My Life

  • Andrew Wilson
    Andrew Wilson 5 days ago

    I always get attached to someone I date because I like the feeling of having someone to be with. Someone's hand to hold. They always end up leaving. I feel guilty because my recent break up left me with 2 holiday tickets and nobody to come with me. I feel lonely and guilty because I feel like it's my fault and these people should have never wasted their time with me. Sadly I feel I shouldn't be around at all. It's super draining and the only thing that helps is sleep..

  • M A
    M A 6 days ago

    I hate that feeling when you feel sad and lonely and keep remembering the memories of the past and the times when you were left alone and the sombre views increasing the intensity of your sadness and loneliness and feeling pain on your heart and very narrow.

  • SHEVZ SAMSON SAMUEL
    SHEVZ SAMSON SAMUEL 7 days ago

    Thinking to Finish life soon.. 😊

  • Gonhun debut
    Gonhun debut 7 days ago

    I have a few friends but I feel like our conversations have become awkward, we don't have that trust or whatever, we always talk about the same stuff everyday, we don't meet and it's killing me.

  • Annette Celia Rosemary

    for me it's:
    1. Unstable friendships : unstable RELATIONSHIP for 6 years
    2. You’re an Ambivert : the relationshio didnt fulfill my needs
    3. Perfectionism : relates to my inability to find a new job
    4. High expectations : again related to my inability to find a better job

  • T Rex
    T Rex 8 days ago

    What do i do? I am going nuts! This life is boring as hell😭

  • Simply J
    Simply J 8 days ago

    I was always alone I was nice once but once high school hit I just wanted to be me. Didn’t want to put on a fake mask. I lost my best friend because it was one sided. Lost another because of the one thing that I can’t control my mouth. I’m lonely by trauma and because I’m not cool enough too. And now with the only couple friends I have it seems like they too are gone.

  • this is the worst name you will ever see lol

    I feel so empty , lonely , and frustrated all the time ... i am just so tired of everything that happens in my life every person that i care about just dissapears completly i reached to a point were i dont even try anymore and i am too shy and introverted to seek new people plus i keep thinking about my old friends and i cant move on ... but its mostly my fault every choice i make leads to more and more isolation i just blocked my self from the world everytime i try explaining my feelings to my mom she tells me that i am too young to be feeling like this ...now i spend most of my days feeling sorry for myself and envying teens my age i just wish i can "fix" myself

  • Barry Subscriber
    Barry Subscriber 9 days ago

    I have no friend to talk to since 15 years old. Not even high school, university, workplace, and other places.... I admit that I got bullied during 15 years old...
    The only one I can talk with is my my parents. My sister is not really wanted to talk to me as she is busy with her own life.
    I spend my day normally alone. While I try to open my mouth and speak more with clients and colleagues... But all superficial talks... Well, at least I get to open my mouth...
    28 years old, every one I know already soulmate, while I just lived and worked alone.
    Someone told me in the past: There are no good friends, just friends to be used and betrayed. They even laughed out said: I am your friend and I will betray you at once if I have benefits out of it. The world is round, no hard feelings.
    Well, I guess I am better stay alone.

  • Kim Shelton
    Kim Shelton 9 days ago +1

    I have problem bonding with people. And growing up we moved so much,never really creating bonds. I also have trust issues. And at my age now, its harder to develop friendship when others already have binds for years.

  • lillianne dere
    lillianne dere 9 days ago

    Best way to stop loneliness is to travel and make friends in other countries. Local friends are boring.

  • Craig Peterman
    Craig Peterman 10 days ago

    Being a Widower from a long and mostly happy marriage results in feeling alone. Losing the spouse after being the full time Caregiver for years compounds the situation. During the Caregiver period you had no time for social contact with outside world. You wake up one morning with no wife to take care of and no friends. Rebuilding a network is nearly impossible as widowed persons and married couples have little in common. I did end up going a Club that has helped but after 8 years do not have any close friends. At age 76 this is not a long term issue. Have a labrador retriever puppy so I am too busy to care.

  • Matt 18
    Matt 18 10 days ago

    I always get bullied thats why i don't have any friends

  • Indrid Cold
    Indrid Cold 10 days ago

    I feel alone because I am alone. I have nobody in my life. I have no friends and no family. I work third shift alone I an enormous complex repairing machinary and vehicles. I do not even have a cellular phone. It was pointless for me. Now, I am considering cancelling my land-line telephone. It only rings about twice a year. I only call out about once a year.

  • 【 Nick’s Subliminals】

    i’m an ambivert because i’m 51 percent extrovert and 49 percent introvert

  • chrisa soultouki
    chrisa soultouki 11 days ago

    okay being all those things at the end doesnt give u necessarily friends. but thank god a video that it's messages is freeing :)

  • Fiona Scott
    Fiona Scott 11 days ago +3

    We used to live in communities where everyone looked after each other so we weren't lonely now the majority are only interested in there status and social media has made most things fake!!!

  • Sean Dafny
    Sean Dafny 11 days ago

    Why do I feel so alone? Don’t ever forget the moment you began to doubt, transitioning from fitting in to standing out.

  • The Unknown
    The Unknown 11 days ago

    I don’t imagine this will work but listen someone add me on Xbox One I need someone to be there with me.. the gamer tag 🏷 is Diddy Bitt I play just about everything

  • Isaac Wagner
    Isaac Wagner 12 days ago +1

    Sometimes I wish I could give the world a hug. Help healing all the struggles that many creatures have....can't save everybody

  • J P
    J P 12 days ago

    8:02 - what exactly is that guy doing?? 🧐😂

  • Jungoot But Taekook
    Jungoot But Taekook 12 days ago +1

    For me, my loneliness stems from the lack of affection I have. My friends rarely have free time and when they do, theyre rarely the first to ask to hangout. I always start the conversations and when I text something in a group chat, no one responds to me and they keep on with their conversations. People think I’m desperate for a boyfriend because of “social status” or something, but in reality I just want someone who I know I can rely on to make me feel loved so I won’t be lonely. I hope it’ll happen soon...

  • J. M.
    J. M. 12 days ago +1

    Cuz im a FUCKING LOSER

  • Young Astro
    Young Astro 12 days ago

    some people may say they get bored alone, some people love being alone

  • It's Me.
    It's Me. 12 days ago +2

    i'am the friend you all need


    can i be your friend? (:

    • Chez B
      Chez B 10 days ago

      hey hit me up on Instagram I'm looking for new friends
      chezka.braid
      😊

  • Alexander William
    Alexander William 13 days ago

    I feel alone because I have barley any friends. I try to play with my fake friends but they always whisper to eachother. They push me and call me horrible names. 😔

  • Whø ãm Ī
    Whø ãm Ī 13 days ago

    I don't have any friends, and the only friend(fake creepy BiTCH!!) I had left me for another friend, now I'm totally alone... And the people who say "your not alone" even these friends(fake creature) left me...

  • The Cheeseburger_666
    The Cheeseburger_666 13 days ago

    I'd rather live alone than feed another mouth and have that person drag you down. f**king parasites.

  • mamas. Boy_
    mamas. Boy_ 13 days ago +1

    Dude it literally made me go to the ER I hate home school

  • mamas. Boy_
    mamas. Boy_ 13 days ago +1

    Dude I started home school and it’s so depressing

  • acajudi100
    acajudi100 13 days ago

    Get online, speak and write journal, and do something for non beggars with both hands.
    Know you are blessed. God should be your #1 friend, and if you have one loyal friend, you are blessed.
    💕❤️💯😊🇺🇸

  • leslie oconnor
    leslie oconnor 14 days ago +1

    I’m Really Hurting

  • leslie oconnor
    leslie oconnor 14 days ago +1

    Because are Really Nasty To Me And Need To Stay Out Of My Life

  • Chillingdude
    Chillingdude 14 days ago

    INFJ problems right there.

  • Goals Come True Always
    Goals Come True Always 14 days ago +1

    I feel lonely a lot. I have a few friends. Like 3 but everyone be doing their own thing!! I just pray I don't die feeling alone like this.... It's ok sometimes but my loneliness is pretty much all the time!

  • Ff
    Ff 14 days ago +1

    Part of the problem is that we live in a social culture where it is exceedingly common and normal for people to ghost others and cancel plans left and right. Even though we have the technology to literally connect with anyone within seconds, people don't go out of their way to check up on others or ask to spend time with them. Wishing people would communicate with you on a regular basis is expecting too much and you can easily be labeled as "needy". For fear of this happening, you stop reaching out to make new connections, convincing yourself that people don't like you or that something is fundamentally wrong with you.

  • Charlie Chase
    Charlie Chase 15 days ago

    Loners are the best

  • madison brownlee
    madison brownlee 15 days ago

    cause i am

  • Ahmed Remix
    Ahmed Remix 15 days ago

    i am alone old time boring, sad, crying😞

  • spiderlime
    spiderlime 15 days ago

    being with yourself is better than being with people who look down at you, make fun of you, and other similar things.

  • Jay Ali
    Jay Ali 15 days ago

    I'm late but I really dont care of being alone my entire life if I have to I'm so used to being lonley that it doesn't even affect me anymore

  • Its Meda
    Its Meda 15 days ago

    I have no irl friends who understand me. let alone much family who understands me.

  • ShySatoshi93
    ShySatoshi93 16 days ago

    When I alone I allow to do anything I deserves like go out to riding,Play online games,travel to vacation or buy somethings and most importantly *Your Family* your family is your friend guys! I know how they treated me but I don't care a least I have my brothers and my mom ^-^

  • Metro Mmdk
    Metro Mmdk 16 days ago +2

    BETTER TO BE ALONE
    BUT NOT MARRY AMERCAN
    WOMAN. BIGEST MISTAKE EVER

  • adam sharif
    adam sharif 16 days ago

    I lost a person who i used to love & care like my family but that person is can't able to saw my feelings and left me alone, it take 14months to recover myself now i hate to trust people, being alone makes me feel peaceful sometimes loneliness eat me from inside

  • Khalid *¡*
    Khalid *¡* 16 days ago +4

    I’m not feeling lonely



    I’m real lonely

  • Kpopoxox
    Kpopoxox 17 days ago

    I thought I was the only one who feels so empty and alone inside but I guess not

  • Susan Koech
    Susan Koech 18 days ago +4

    No one ever texts me first.

    • Susan Koech
      Susan Koech 15 days ago +1

      @RJ Lewis so true

    • RJ Lewis
      RJ Lewis 15 days ago +1

      But then when they see you in public by coincidence they'll say something like "we should talk more!" Or "why don't you ever text me?"

  • Bunny On Live
    Bunny On Live 18 days ago

    99%of frinds are not real friends
    I Lose in Love.Fake Friends.Happy family.
    I am Loser.I want tolive alone in the world😢

  • anggara sultan zaid
    anggara sultan zaid 18 days ago

    I think too much of the future thinking my family all DIE

  • Afk, More Like Your Moms Gay

    My discord is iLikeTurtles#2477 Hmu :)