The Power of Listening - An Ancient Practice for Our Future: Leon Berg at TEDxRedondoBeach

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  • Опубликовано: 12 июн 2013
  • Leon Berg is a founding member of the Ojai Foundation, an educational sanctuary in the Upper Ojai Valley of Southern California. He is a Senior Trainer of the Ojai Foundation's Center for Council Practice, and has been facilitating Council groups in the U.S. and abroad for over 20 years. In 2001, he went to Israel to seed the practice of Council among Israeli Jews and Arabs, co-founding the Israeli non-profit organization Ma'agal Hakshava (Listening Circles). Leon has returned to Israel many times since then to conduct Council trainings and lead a variety of coexistence programs. In 2008 Leon and his partner, Glori Zeltzer, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, began to teach their relationship workshops, Tools For Togetherness, to couples seeking to enrich and/or heal their relationships. They now teach the practices to couples in the US and abroad. For more information visit tools-for-togetherness.com

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Комментарии • 60

  • Margarida Matos
    Margarida Matos 5 месяцев назад

    Wonderful! Thank you very much!

  • Glori Zeltzer
    Glori Zeltzer 7 месяцев назад

    Your work still carries so much value, I'm so pleased!

  • Pete Smith
    Pete Smith 7 месяцев назад

    Really great!! I learned a lot.. Thank you for your message. Amazing!!

  • Mirna Yasser
    Mirna Yasser 8 месяцев назад

    The loss of Palestinians and Israelis are not equal when Israelis are the ones who kicked them out of their land and killed them,there is no war of independence for Israel READ HISTORY

  • Scott Johnson Productions
    Scott Johnson Productions 9 месяцев назад

    Will be sharing this video for one of my group counseling classes that I lead. It's about effective listening in recovery.

  • wim lammens
    wim lammens 10 месяцев назад

    Leon, thank you for you sharing yr experience. Hope for humanity if more people would connect to their souls through not running from feelings. Mostley males prefer to suppress feelings considered weak(fear and pain) man prefer to show agression in stead of heartfelt pain and tears. One of the stupiedest things parents and teachers learn boys "boys don't cry" that's why boys kill and fight as this behaviour is more accepted and even glorified in movies tough killing fighters, soldiers. We are shaped by our culture and influenced by media and sports. People hitting each other (boxing) untill the other one falls is glorified in stadiums and sports theaters. Figures like james bond who prey on woman(specific young skinny sexualised) and kill for their government are glorified. If we would choose to make mother theresa and father damien and Gandhi heroes or ordinary people helping others
    our heroes we would lead our children to better choices (not greed and abuse, but love and sharing and caring) we would start to see a better world.

  • Cynthia bieber Drew
    Cynthia bieber Drew 10 месяцев назад +1

    I understood perfectly all,thanks sir.

  • Shalini Chakranarayan
    Shalini Chakranarayan 11 месяцев назад

    I gave myself a very beautiful start of the morning with this calm and poised talk.....loved it truly

  • Satyajeet Giram
    Satyajeet Giram Год назад

    👌👌👌👌👌

  • Asesh Datta
    Asesh Datta Год назад +2

    Listening is attentive. The pause between the sounds is also part of listening. Observe eye to eye. Feel he warmth, smell the odor, ask small questions, give proactive gestures to allow freedom to express are very subtle parts of listening. It is deep and emotive. Great talk. Regards

  • Reza Rusandi
    Reza Rusandi Год назад

    His speaking totally suits the concept of vulnerability by Brene Brown

  • HISSEN DAOUD
    HISSEN DAOUD Год назад +4

    Listening Requires Focus and Attention

  • SoldiersofSelfMastery
    SoldiersofSelfMastery Год назад +2

    Lately in my Journey I've been really focused on being a Really Great Listener! Instead of Just running my mouth! Oh it Felt good saying that!

  • salim abuker
    salim abuker Год назад

    it was so beautiful

  • Brian Bachmeyer
    Brian Bachmeyer Год назад +1

    Leon is a good, good man. Thank you for this talk!!

  • Nels 5
    Nels 5 Год назад

    Simply AWESOME

  • Sherry Sutherland
    Sherry Sutherland Год назад +1

    Happy to have stumbled onto this beautiful Ted talk.

  • Sonia Kiran
    Sonia Kiran Год назад

    What was a seductive voice

  • Guillermo Antonio Barrios
    Guillermo Antonio Barrios 2 года назад +1

    PLEASE ADD TITLES IN SPANISH TO THIS CONFERENCE.

    • Leon Berg
      Leon Berg 7 месяцев назад

      There is now a version with Spanish subtitles....thank you

  • Mahlet Baye
    Mahlet Baye 2 года назад

    Very impressed 👍🏽

  • bonekolekta
    bonekolekta 2 года назад

    Feelings isn't a cognitive tool. Faith is the commitment of one's consciousness to beliefs for which one has no sensory evidence or rational proof. When man rejects reason as his standard of judgement, only one alternative standard remains to him: his feelings. A mystic is a man who treats his feelings as tools of cognition. Faith is the equation of feelings with knowledge

  • Dharmendra Rai
    Dharmendra Rai 2 года назад +3

    Brilliant talk on listening
    Dharmendra Rai , Invisible Negotiation Trainer

  • laugh out loud
    laugh out loud 2 года назад

    Listening to the world around us is the antidote to listening to your inner mental chatter.

  • Alexandr Semichin
    Alexandr Semichin 2 года назад +1

    Amazing video!

  • Imdad Hussain
    Imdad Hussain 2 года назад

    Haq Moajood dear Sir, accept Sufi (mystics ) hi. I love love love you.

  • Kern Beare
    Kern Beare 3 года назад +1

    Wonderful presentation, filled with wisdom. I will share this with more. Thank you.

  • rodger so
    rodger so 3 года назад +1

    In bible it also says that we should kill gays and mary our rapists so we should really think before we blindly folow some ancient book written mostly by homophobic assholes and pick out stuff that it says which are actually right and not something like marying a rapist

    • Andy Wade
      Andy Wade 2 года назад +1

      One does not need religion to learn how to hate. While the Bible and other sacred texts have been misused to fuel much hate around the world, hate originates in the heart and can be spewed by anyone. Rather than attacking, I invite you to join with others to build bridges to understanding. If you have been hurt by the church, an many have, your own personal healing will not come through anger or hate, but understanding and, if possible, forgiveness. Neither of these is an excuse to let abusers and mis-users of sacred texts off the hook for contributing to division, hate, and injury. They need to be held accountable for their actions and will need to travel their own path to healing and wholeness. When we fester in our own pain and the hate that sets seed, we not only harm ourselves but also join with those creating more pain in the world.

    • Dhillon Dhass
      Dhillon Dhass 3 года назад +2

      +bibudito kobulia Out beyond ideas of right doing and wrong doing there is a field. i'll meet you there. :)

  • Stephen Goh
    Stephen Goh 3 года назад +5

    I am fortunate to have listen to your great sharing. Thank you.

  • Jade Patnode
    Jade Patnode 3 года назад +1

    great truth .thank you

  • II. Gyula
    II. Gyula 3 года назад +1

    this was fantastic :)

  • Angelo Francisco
    Angelo Francisco 3 года назад

    wonderfull thank you for the inside vision and for sharing you wisdom and expirience ! namaste , it is very inspiring for me to learn and teach a powerfull and simply way of relationships in harmony ! salute big ugg my brother !

  • T-34
    T-34 4 года назад +22

    I find that people love to be listened to but dont always reciprocate this and listen back. I am constantly listening to others and giving them the space to express themselves, and its getting boring. People will quite happily use you for their attention needs.

    • Jacadz
      Jacadz 10 месяцев назад +1

      I notice a number of people agree they also have this experience. I too have become the “listener”. The question is also where are people speaking from? If it’s the heart speaking there isn’t a problem. But often the talk is just a cover up or release of tension for the other person. That’s painful unless you can get underneath by asking the right question. Also people are always reflecting something about ourselves so it can be revealing and confronting to see how and where we do that ourselves. If I manage to face a projection in myself the outer behaviour seems to vanish. But it’s important to know we have the power stop the “listening” if it’s not really sharing and that’s healthy.

    • jackdawcaw
      jackdawcaw Год назад +1

      Maybe you can try to see what might be learned from it? I mean, you are listening for them, but even more so for yourself. You can learn a lot about yourself, about those people, and about people in general, by listening. I can understand that you also have needs to express yourself though. That only makes sense.

  • Bob Eden
    Bob Eden 4 года назад +15

    Totally get it. I live in "Heartspace" not "Headspace" and "My Mind is just a Tool that I use when I Choose"!

  • Joy Harmon
    Joy Harmon 4 года назад +1

    I have had the privilege of Native American Council teachings for many years...and earned the permission to share these teachings with others.....contact JOY: In perso or remote options. Technology can/must be used for the higher good.....we can show you how! BE THE JOY. REPLY HERE FOR MORE INFO! Peace to you...and best listening!

  • Success Resources Australia
    Success Resources Australia 4 года назад +25

    "Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred to talk." - Doug Larson

  • KY Done
    KY Done 4 года назад +2

    Such a useful and true to the matter regarding relationship. Listening is the center point and most important activity any couple should do to and for each other. I can really related to this speaker personally and it is all truth.

  • Leo Tyrron Whyte
    Leo Tyrron Whyte 4 года назад +3

    a very beautiful lesson to learn and follow.

  • Bill Quinn
    Bill Quinn 4 года назад

    Good talk. One technical aspect that might be helpful for all uploaders to be aware of--check the volume after uploading. (Of course, it could be argued that the low volume on this was designed to make me listen more closely--but, I had to max out the RU-clip volume setting, and my laptop's volume setting to hear it.)

  • Chrisossy
    Chrisossy 5 лет назад +1

    Amazing, truly inspiring words, a man speaking his truth. Thank you!

  • Christopher Tun
    Christopher Tun 5 лет назад

    Thank you

  • Phoenix66
    Phoenix66 5 лет назад

    Thank you

  • IIJamesII
    IIJamesII 5 лет назад

    "What's more seductive than a man who wants to listen to you and share his feelings?" Ummmm.... Money?? Seriously, women are so emotionally sophisticated that men's feelings are generally BORING. ;)

  • IIJamesII
    IIJamesII 5 лет назад

    Strangely enough, what is "within" us can destroy us also.

  • Sheila Mac
    Sheila Mac 5 лет назад +2

    As a former teacher, current personal coach, parent, and business owner; the training that I received at the Ojai Foundation has helped me along life's journey in many aspects.
    It is in this TRUE LISTENING -- ON A SOUL LEVEL, that I have found my voice...
    "THE DANCE OF THE SOUL, is SACRED, it all begins when BEAUTIFUL AUTHENTIC ME and BEAUTIFUL AUTHENTIC YOU live in COMMUNITY and IN FREEDOM!"
    As always I wish you,
    "Life, Love, Laughter, & Light!"
    --Sheila

  • Chari McHale
    Chari McHale 5 лет назад +1

    How I miss the The Ojai Foundation and sitting in the lap of Grandfather Land, listening to lives unfurl and hearts open....Thank you, Mr. Berg, I never met you but I certainly felt the peace of the practice of listening, of council come through your voice.

  • juliecaracreates
    juliecaracreates 5 лет назад

    very beautiful.. so excited!

  • Verona Fonte
    Verona Fonte 5 лет назад

    Hey Leon, Sweet teaching from a sweet man. Good for you!

  • Harry Poliak
    Harry Poliak 5 лет назад

    Leon, beautiful presentation.

  • Steve Onyett
    Steve Onyett 5 лет назад +3

    Beautiful, gentle, grounded. A gift to the world. Thank you.

  • Han Delissen
    Han Delissen 5 лет назад +1

    Hi Leon,
    Thanks for this important story at this podium. Great talk.

  • Kim Maxwell
    Kim Maxwell 5 лет назад

    Well done Leon -- well done!!!

  • מרכז אוריאל - יוצרים הקשבה

    thanx leon for bringing Council to israel - we at Uriel center have trained more than 80 facilitators since 2007 and they spread the word(and the silence...)
    Toda raba - Eran and Nurit halevi

  • Kevin Wallace
    Kevin Wallace 5 лет назад

    Excellent!

  • Horizons K-8 School
    Horizons K-8 School 5 лет назад +2

    So very grateful for this man and this message. Please listen!