Thank you for this, so powerful for me. I’m a mom to 8 who stayed in abusive marriage with their father for 25 years. I finally got out and today I’m a survivor no longer a victim.
This literally breaks my heart the memories that I’ve been through no one can understand but now she’s in a better place called heaven and I dearly missed my mum every day 😭😭😭
This was my mother. She was a huge abuser. My dad is going through a super complicated divorce and my mom wrongly accused my dad of abusing me and my siblings. We all had to go to a foster home because of it. Thankfully my dad fought for us and we are back home 😀
I also come from an abusive mother in which I somehow managed to make peace with later on. Of course that took years of recovering and healing before I did such a thing. To anyone out there you’re not alone and take advantage of your resources if needed and get help. God bless y’all all
I have been in a cycle of abuse for all 16 years of my life. When I was 8, my father beat my mom to death. I got upset and hit my father with a bat and he started hitting me constantly with his belt and I kept bleeding until u was knocked out unconscious. By the time I woke up, my father had killed my sister and was in jail. I had a similar instance with my second family but it wasn’t a severe. My second family cyber bullied me offline and ending up leaving me multiple times when they went on vacation. I am now living with my 2nd cousin’s family who really love me, I am so grateful to have a loving family🥰
Sometimes fathers act like that because they are not struggling with something and it makes them feel vulnerable, and they are really crying out of help. But being abusive is no way to cry out for help.
I relate, my whole family is terrified of my dad and he is always there for me so I wish he wouldn’t do this, but scaring your wife and your young is wrong. ❤️
My father was a dedicated family man, an educator, a protector, a counselor, a hero to our mom and his 2 children. I know nothing else but this. I pray that ppl can get a chance to experience this type of love and support. Abuse is wrong.
@vickie davidson absolutely! I thank God for blessing me and my sister. To me honest, all the men in out family including our uncle's are role models. My uncles have adopted several children and they now are fathers themselves. They are paying it forward. Domestic violence of any kind is wrong.
family is so precious I love u all so much mashallah..☪️ we must spend every moment together ❤ you might thinks who cares" but my mother kept on saying that to me and when my rabbit died I understood so much inshallah she's in heaven 💘 💜 💛 💚 🧡 💘..we love you so much ❤ and you are right it IS NOT OK to be abusive so we must care for eachother ❤
I'm so glad that you don't do this. But it pains me to know that there are ppl out there who do do it. But y'all r good ppl and I respect you for that.
My father abused my mother HORRIBLY in every way you can think of and some you can't imagine. Of the four sons and three daughters in our family, none of us grew up to abuse others in any way (thank God), because we will forever remember the suffering of our precious Mama.
The ending when her friends came to protect her was the most emotional thing I have ever seen, please for the love of god treat others the way you want to be treated 😭😭
My dad looks tough but is a teddy bear, we ended up adopting my friend who was disowned form an abusive family, she was taken advantage of by her cousin and she was also beat by her dad etc. she is so scared of even hugging my dad because of these things unless I’m there. No one should go through this. My friend helped me right this and is thankful that you are spreading awareness!!
He knows and loves how His Children are protective of family that last scene was a Love Cry from within...yall are so sweet an loving God bless Yall...
Can I just say that the part where all the bothers protected their mother was the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen about a family who cares for each other ✊🏾😭❤️
@aritz zabala true but if this is a real situation for them and they want to film it to show people about how some people have this related situation to show that fathers need to be a better role model then what...?
Never do this...it effects their metal heath. Instead, be supportive and kind to them. They might get scared of you just looking at you in the future if you do this. Love you guys💕💕💕💕
I'm glad I had a disciplinarian as a father. Never abusive, but when I crossed that line, an ass whopping, and a lecture came fast. Some people say that is abuse, but that man took care of me everyday, taught me valuable skills, and is a role model to me and my siblings.
In today’s world, it’s abuse to discipline your kid. I don’t understand why, but glad that some people understand good parenting. This video, however, are examples of actual abuse.
@Danny Dethanos my dad used to beat the holy hell out of me with a belt across my back and ass, never considered it abuse cause I usually deserved it lol
It's a struggle to come back up after being with an abusive man. Nine years I never thought he would be the way he was. I get scared to be in a new relationship. Scared it may happen again. My kids don't need that in their life.
Been going through it for 22 years..can testify. Product of it of both parents. Don't fool with them. When you get free of them, lock your access from them. You deserve the BEST!
I grew up with abusive parents, using fear and threats to control. They also took pleasure in my pain in order to make themselves feel powerful. I still am in therapy today to deal with all their mental manipulations and their aggressive volatile explosions during my youth. My body keeps the score.
I'm sorry that you had to endure this awful and cruel treatment. Some people should not be allowed to have children. I'm glad to see that you're seeking help to heal from the abuse and neglect from your parents. Sending a big hug.
This was how my dad was... Always abusing my siblings and my mom- and he acted just like that- but he's in jail now- and we're all doing ok- but he gave me PTSD so im stuck in the past- but we're all going to therapy now.
@Trey Partee A demand? Are you a King? He should have never answered you. Get yourself some manners, and grow up. This is said to teach you, not as hate towards you.
Pops this is so true . I love this fam . Yes show the world how to treat a wife and your kids . Telling u the truth pops n mom u did a great job raising 5 kids . And people should see ur examples and learn . You hear me for those abusive husband treat ur wife like a queen n king. Show love is that simple . Be kind . Take away that negative attitude men . Be good world . And if ur mean change urself n humble urself . Once u change people would be surprised and learn with you . Be humble . Is not that hard !
My dad was an abuser but he ended up dieing in jail then my mom tried to sell me for drugs and then I got adopted and those parents were abusing me every day so my adoption got over turned and now I’m about to be adopted again by someone who really loves me and someone who I really love
Aww thats Fantastic stay strong never let someone stop you there is a future 2 ! Im happy when your'e happy even tough its from 1 year i hope their treat you wholesome when you need something say it for me even tough we are strangers i wanna help you cause i have problems with my family and i talked with someone how i feel and what happens and now i feel good 😁🖤 Im not depressed because of the Black heart💀
Thanks for illustrating this important fact. Sometimes in life, we all get frustrated but don't take that out on the people we love. Take 10 minutes, calm down and don't break hearts over a bad mood. Thank you again and Peace and Blessings to you and your family 🙏☮️♥️
When a father abuses a mother it doesn’t just hurt a mother’s feeling but it also hurts the child’s feelings because their parents don’t love each other ❤️ 🥺
Don't abused anyone because you don't like them. Stick up for them when they are being bullied. It's just bot fair to people who has family problems. You just have to stick up for them
My dad was abusive. My mom was an alcoholic and got antagonist so many think she brought it in herself. Her own sister, my aunt, made a video expressing how my mother made her choices and she would hold no responsibility for it. Because I was begging my family to understand and accept my.menral health diagnosis. It's hard on a child to hear their mother be beat.
My father likes to do unnecessary arguments with my mother and raise his voice and get angry at silly things, then one day I had a flying thought that if he ever tried to hurt my mother physically I wouldn't hesitate to beat him up, then after thinking about what I thought, I realised that I would have ended up on the same path as him, it's so scary how you don't even realise it until it happens
Thought the same thing. But I thought killing him was an answer than realized I would be a monster and not a good role model to my sibling. I'll act like him and end up like him.
Spirit of Anger. Ask your father if he's willing to receive prayer for deliverance and seek anger mngmnt help too. If he doesn't agree just pray for him and offer personal sacrifices for his deliverance. God bless y'all.
REST IN PEACE DAD . We used to play and video chat almost everyday since I left the country to further my studies. He passed away and I can’t see his body neither attend his funeral. I’m heart broken 😞 and I don’t want to go home anymore. How can I sleep in that house without him ???😭😭😭
That is why we love this family. It is not only fun and silly things..it conveys moral values some have definitely forgotten or not even know.
I love u guys
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Thiss made me cry it’s so sad but at the end I love how the kids stand up for there mom 🥺
Yes
Mother: gives paper
Dad: and I took that personally
LMFAOOOOO💀💀💀😭😭😭
WHY DID I LAUGH😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣🤣💀💀💀
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
My dad actually takes that personal
I love how boys protected their mom in the end
Yeah , me too ❤
There's the girl to
It was so sweet
Ikr beautiful family
Thank you for this, so powerful for me. I’m a mom to 8 who stayed in abusive marriage with their father for 25 years. I finally got out and today I’m a survivor no longer a victim.
This literally breaks my heart the memories that I’ve been through no one can understand but now she’s in a better place called heaven and I dearly missed my mum every day 😭😭😭
If it helps one time my dad choked my mom against the wall and I had to watch it with my brother
I am sorry 😞 😔 😟 🙁
I am so sorry for you
Oh 😥 I’m so sorry for your loss rip to your mom 😣😭
I love the end when the boys protect their mom🥰
Om
Yeah me too!
@☆ ليمون ☆ yea that i know
@Lia Aesthetic 💅 i was telling the people who didn't.
@☆ ليمون ☆ we all know that
This was my mother. She was a huge abuser. My dad is going through a super complicated divorce and my mom wrongly accused my dad of abusing me and my siblings. We all had to go to a foster home because of it. Thankfully my dad fought for us and we are back home 😀
I also come from an abusive mother in which I somehow managed to make peace with later on. Of course that took years of recovering and healing before I did such a thing. To anyone out there you’re not alone and take advantage of your resources if needed and get help. God bless y’all all
Sorry for that
@yang oh kk
@ᴅʀɪᴩ ɢᴏɢᴇᴛᴀ don't mind him his kid probably had to pic a parent and picked his wife
Love your acting skill.and bringing social issues to light is a very good idea.
I have been in a cycle of abuse for all 16 years of my life. When I was 8, my father beat my mom to death. I got upset and hit my father with a bat and he started hitting me constantly with his belt and I kept bleeding until u was knocked out unconscious. By the time I woke up, my father had killed my sister and was in jail. I had a similar instance with my second family but it wasn’t a severe. My second family cyber bullied me offline and ending up leaving me multiple times when they went on vacation. I am now living with my 2nd cousin’s family who really love me, I am so grateful to have a loving family🥰
It's so important to show this. Many people don't know they are going through abuse. Thank you for using your platform ❤
I literally cried...this spoke to my heart. May God bless you guys..can't stand abusive relationships
A Father needs to be the pillar of strength that everyone can rely on, not a tyrant everyone fears. 💪
Wise one right here,that is absolutely true!👍
Sometimes fathers act like that because they are not struggling with something and it makes them feel vulnerable, and they are really crying out of help. But being abusive is no way to cry out for help.
@boi dude no
@Sir Yeetus not true it could also be the mother not always the father
@boi dude You already know the father will automatically be the protector if there's any danger.
100% agree. You guys are awesome. Thanks for making awesome shorts
This is my all time favorite family. I love you guys. So real and funny (not in this vid though).
I relate, my whole family is terrified of my dad and he is always there for me so I wish he wouldn’t do this, but scaring your wife and your young is wrong. ❤️
Love how they all protected her in the end. So heart warming.
My father was a dedicated family man, an educator, a protector, a counselor, a hero to our mom and his 2 children. I know nothing else but this. I pray that ppl can get a chance to experience this type of love and support. Abuse is wrong.
Davidson promise 🤗
@vickie davidson absolutely! I thank God for blessing me and my sister. To me honest, all the men in out family including our uncle's are role models. My uncles have adopted several children and they now are fathers themselves. They are paying it forward. Domestic violence of any kind is wrong.
❤
This was such an eye opening message.
Even i am facing such issues in my family 😥
So sorry to hear this! Sending you lots of love and warm wishes ❤!
I love this family and hope this never happens to anyone like it happened to my mom :(
family is so precious I love u all so much mashallah..☪️ we must spend every moment together ❤ you might thinks who cares" but my mother kept on saying that to me and when my rabbit died I understood so much inshallah she's in heaven 💘 💜 💛 💚 🧡 💘..we love you so much ❤ and you are right it IS NOT OK to be abusive so we must care for eachother ❤
I love how all of the boys came out of nowhere at the end just to protect their mom
I’m so glad this was made. I had no idea you should treat, not only your family but people in general, with respect and kindness.
My mind was blown 🤯
Tiktok really stopped me from being racist, abusive and homophobic thanks tiktok for everything 😢🙏🙏
Ikr? Man i sure am grateful for tiktoc for teaching me being a wife-beater is wrong! I never would have knew
Thank goodness there are amazing families like this that would never be like this
I'm crying also I love how the boys protected their mom
I love how all the children sheltered the mother for protection
This played out beautifully...much respect ❤️
I like the reaction of the boys!!! Beautiful family’
I love how they created a shield for her 🥰
The way the kids quickly ran and safe there mom ❤🤧✨
I'm so glad that you don't do this. But it pains me to know that there are ppl out there who do do it. But y'all r good ppl and I respect you for that.
My father abused my mother HORRIBLY in every way you can think of and some you can't imagine. Of the four sons and three daughters in our family, none of us grew up to abuse others in any way (thank God), because we will forever remember the suffering of our precious Mama.
@Dead_mage2 yes ikr
Don’t care nobody asked
Can i help you?
My father's my role model and always will be he's a lovely man
The ending when her friends came to protect her was the most emotional thing I have ever seen, please for the love of god treat others the way you want to be treated 😭😭
I love how all the kids came to protect her at the end
Love this family!!
My dad looks tough but is a teddy bear, we ended up adopting my friend who was disowned form an abusive family, she was taken advantage of by her cousin and she was also beat by her dad etc. she is so scared of even hugging my dad because of these things unless I’m there. No one should go through this. My friend helped me right this and is thankful that you are spreading awareness!!
@spit2u yup
@Anastasia Houston I hope someone does soon!
@me tanks
@•xXbubble•*b a m b I•* really awesome:3
@av it’s awesome
He knows and loves how His Children are protective of family that last scene was a Love Cry from within...yall are so sweet an loving God bless Yall...
I love the way the kids protected their mom
I ❤ your Family.
Educating the Masses.
People Dont Understand What "Behind Closed Doors Means"
Thankyou!
W my family it's reversed, my dad is the "victim" my mom always yells at him and I just hate it
Mood
Can I just say that the part where all the bothers protected their mother was the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen about a family who cares for each other ✊🏾😭❤️
@aritz zabala true but if this is a real situation for them and they want to film it to show people about how some people have this related situation to show that fathers need to be a better role model then what...?
@Tyranny Blackthorn It’s scripted.
Ikr? I almost started crying 😅
You are acting like its real
@Andrea Jones you just didn't did you
This brings back a lot of memories and still more to come
Never do this...it effects their metal heath. Instead, be supportive and kind to them. They might get scared of you just looking at you in the future if you do this. Love you guys💕💕💕💕
Yeah, right. He'd be in the emergency room if he ever pulled this! 😂
Idk why but this video made me laugh so hard😂
I'm glad I had a disciplinarian as a father. Never abusive, but when I crossed that line, an ass whopping, and a lecture came fast. Some people say that is abuse, but that man took care of me everyday, taught me valuable skills, and is a role model to me and my siblings.
@wonderful beautiful spams for you true a bit cheesy IMO but it’s a good message so what the hay
In today’s world, it’s abuse to discipline your kid. I don’t understand why, but glad that some people understand good parenting. This video, however, are examples of actual abuse.
@Equinox2121 I think some people do lol my dad did spankings once every blue moon
Y'all got some Stockholm smh
@Danny Dethanos my dad used to beat the holy hell out of me with a belt across my back and ass, never considered it abuse cause I usually deserved it lol
This happens everyday for some 🙏
This literally happens in every cliche movie XD
Bruh the ending literally got me crying a bit 😢🥲
Wanna be my best bff
Aww this is so true it's not okay if someone put there hands on you ☺️
It's a struggle to come back up after being with an abusive man. Nine years I never thought he would be the way he was. I get scared to be in a new relationship. Scared it may happen again. My kids don't need that in their life.
@BlueSeas and abusive stepmoms too! Agreed.
Keep your kids safe from potentially harmful stepdads...just focus on kids they will love you for it.❤️
Been going through it for 22 years..can testify. Product of it of both parents. Don't fool with them. When you get free of them, lock your access from them. You deserve the BEST!
Moral values
is presented
Thank you
This video made me cry. This family is the best. Pops, you are the best father. God bless you
Love this message
Love ur guys fam u always set a good example for people
I grew up with abusive parents, using fear and threats to control. They also took pleasure in my pain in order to make themselves feel powerful. I still am in therapy today to deal with all their mental manipulations and their aggressive volatile explosions during my youth. My body keeps the score.
@Mitzy Sandi Vallejo , you're very welcome. 🙂
@Marcus Tuuhetoka thank you for having us in your thoughts and prayers.
I pray for all of you 🙏🏽
I'm sorry that you had to endure this awful and cruel treatment. Some people should not be allowed to have children. I'm glad to see that you're seeking help to heal from the abuse and neglect from your parents. Sending a big hug.
Same here
Whenever they upload a video funny one or sad one gives me goosebumps every time 😭😭
This was how my dad was... Always abusing my siblings and my mom- and he acted just like that- but he's in jail now- and we're all doing ok- but he gave me PTSD so im stuck in the past- but we're all going to therapy now.
Mother is so precious. Her feet needs to be kissed. May Allah swt guide us all, ameen ya Rabul Alameen 🤲🤲🤲
I love how the kids protect her
“it’s not okay to be abusive”
*we’ve been tricked, we’ve been backstabbed, and we’ve been quite possibly, bamboozled.*
@Trey Partee A demand? Are you a King? He should have never answered you. Get yourself some manners, and grow up. This is said to teach you, not as hate towards you.
Wtf are these replies
Yes bamboozled
@Table Tennis gejgendgndgkkdhhdmdjdj🤗💙
Jesus loves you SO MUCH 💖💖💖 HE OUR SALVATION 💜🤗
We must protect people from abusers
I know pops felt wrong when he had to deny his wife’s cooking it’s always good 😃
I love how at the end all the brothers surrounded the sister to protect her family isn't about abuse it is about love care
lol "sister"?😂
Pops this is so true . I love this fam . Yes show the world how to treat a wife and your kids . Telling u the truth pops n mom u did a great job raising 5 kids . And people should see ur examples and learn . You hear me for those abusive husband treat ur wife like a queen n king. Show love is that simple . Be kind . Take away that negative attitude men . Be good world . And if ur mean change urself n humble urself . Once u change people would be surprised and learn with you . Be humble . Is not that hard !
My dad was an abuser but he ended up dieing in jail then my mom tried to sell me for drugs and then I got adopted and those parents were abusing me every day so my adoption got over turned and now I’m about to be adopted again by someone who really loves me and someone who I really love
Aww thats Fantastic stay strong never let someone stop you there is a future 2 ! Im happy when your'e happy even tough its from 1 year i hope their treat you wholesome when you need something say it for me even tough we are strangers i wanna help you cause i have problems with my family and i talked with someone how i feel and what happens and now i feel good 😁🖤
Im not depressed because of the Black heart💀
@I’m on the next level😌 Me 2
Now you are safe
Wow
You are so strong going through that stuff I hope you have a fantastic home and family
I love how all the boys in your family are overprotective over their 👪
I love how they protected there mom bc that what family supposed to do is protect each other
At the end. That was so sweet!
I love when the boys protect their mom❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰😍
This gave me chills and tears. I know its acted out but the power behind the sons protecting their mother was amazing.
It’s so sweet how they protect her
Family always matter even when u get into a fight they will always be to support u no matter what
This is why we care about our family more than games 🥺
So true! I wish my dad understand this...
Thanks for illustrating this important fact. Sometimes in life, we all get frustrated but don't take that out on the people we love. Take 10 minutes, calm down and don't break hearts over a bad mood. Thank you again and Peace and Blessings to you and your family 🙏☮️♥️
Thank you for you wards 🙏
When a father abuses a mother it doesn’t just hurt a mother’s feeling but it also hurts the child’s feelings because their parents don’t love each other ❤️ 🥺
This dad has to be taught a lesson
I love how the boys protect there mom
But I kinda feel bad for pops bc he regretted it
Don't abused anyone because you don't like them. Stick up for them when they are being bullied.
It's just bot fair to people who has family problems.
You just have to stick up for them
It’s a blessing to have a good dad but a blessing not many get…
@Samuel Guzman-Santamaría not all father's r good.. They may act to be good in public but r abusers in private
You sure about that? I see many happy kids spending their time with their father
Good choice boys and thank you for protecting her
Those boz are so protective of their mother 💖💖🙏 it's good to have all those boz around to stop the mother from been abuse.
ASÍ SUFRÍA MI MADRE.....AHORA QUE MURIÓ ....
SUFRO YO ESE MALTRATO...
😇😢😇😢😢😢😢😢
shout out to all the boys who took a beating to protect their moms from abusive fathers
I wanted to cry when the boys all covered their mother from potential abuse.
Hey thank you family, this is a beautiful message. Love it.
It’s not ok to be abusive💔I feel so bad
A mother is always baby's first and last love 🌠❤ 👩
My dad was abusive.
My mom was an alcoholic and got antagonist so many think she brought it in herself.
Her own sister, my aunt, made a video expressing how my mother made her choices and she would hold no responsibility for it.
Because I was begging my family to understand and accept my.menral health diagnosis.
It's hard on a child to hear their mother be beat.
I love this family very much ❣️❣️
My father likes to do unnecessary arguments with my mother and raise his voice and get angry at silly things, then one day I had a flying thought that if he ever tried to hurt my mother physically I wouldn't hesitate to beat him up, then after thinking about what I thought, I realised that I would have ended up on the same path as him, it's so scary how you don't even realise it until it happens
Me too bro
@Drax Kenta right.
Thought the same thing. But I thought killing him was an answer than realized I would be a monster and not a good role model to my sibling. I'll act like him and end up like him.
But it's not the same, you are just defending your mother
Spirit of Anger. Ask your father if he's willing to receive prayer for deliverance and seek anger mngmnt help too. If he doesn't agree just pray for him and offer personal sacrifices for his deliverance.
God bless y'all.
I love at the end how the kids safe the mother
You raised good kids
Love you
I cried when pops was trying to hit her but the boys got her back
REST IN PEACE DAD . We used to play and video chat almost everyday since I left the country to further my studies. He passed away and I can’t see his body neither attend his funeral. I’m heart broken 😞 and I don’t want to go home anymore. How can I sleep in that house without him ???😭😭😭
The way all the kids protected the mom made me cry
@I Noor aight
It doesn't matter if its fake its a lesson for us all
Its fake don't worry
That's what family is for and the dad is nice he just needs the boys to listen
That's a smart way to treat your mom if she really didn't beat up I'm glad every kid came in protected her
Love the way the boys protect her maybe the dad got the point
Mother: does nothing
Dad: *takes it personally* WHY DID U DO THAT