THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DON'T STOP... | Weekly Vlog #6

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  • Published on May 10, 2018
  • I didn't even see it coming and I will talk more about this in a RealTalk asap. After completing all of my big trips, I suddenly realised I hadn't taken a break AT ALL this year and I had nothing more to give. But Ishi and I spent lots of time together exploring Balaton and having expensive picnics in Budapest! Need to find a way to refill my creative cup.
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  • PsychoTraveller
    PsychoTraveller  Year ago +28

    I didn't even see it coming and it's the most bizarre feeling. I want to create, but my cup is empty right now... Who's ready for a RealTalk tomorrow? :)

    • Sami Walim
      Sami Walim Year ago

      PsychoTraveller i am from morroco please React to this ✌❤ Amazing ru-clip.com/video/HsyOnnthoQE/video.html

    • Compass North
      Compass North Year ago

      PsychoTraveller wish I could join the Live Stream but I'm in northwestern Ontario Canada(Thunder Bay) and time difference will probably be too much. Will look for it though. Have fun!

    • PsychoTraveller
      PsychoTraveller  Year ago +1

      These analogies are giving me life!!! 👏👏😂☺

    • Compass North
      Compass North Year ago

      It's OK to sit on a branch and enjoy the view for a while. Everyone needs a break from climbing that tree and enjoy the view.

    • Compass North
      Compass North Year ago

      Don't be afraid of falling from that big tree.....you are tied on and supported by your friends that love you. Smile, look up and climb onward.

  • Lady Popkins
    Lady Popkins Year ago

    I think you are really going to enjoy being able to spend time with friends and family, I imagine it will feel like a different world in the uk and it may not seem so exciting as a lot of other countries in the world but we do still have some beautiful places and we're such a small island it doesn't take long to get places (although sometimes a bit pricey lol)
    Maybe you could do a meetup in the UK at some point? Picnic? 😅 assuming you're coming back to the midlands, everywhere is within reach here in the middle! 😊
    Good luck!!!
    Amy x

  • hallieshouse13
    hallieshouse13 Year ago

    I make books for a living and have to be constantly creative, every day, actually. I know exactly what you mean. You don't feel down or lazy or uninspired...you just can't. I think you have done the right thing ( just watched your most recent video) taking a break. Sometimes, it has taken me a good while and i have work to do. If i spend the time i'm taking off, trying to get back into my creative flow, forget it. I force myself to literally forget about what i have to do, which is hard when you need to get this thing done, but i have learnt to trust that it will come back. When you feel ready, do a very simple task and you will naturally be creating again. Obviously depending on the task, but for me, i pick up the project and flip through it and i find myself working on it, without realising it. It's the over thinking it for me. Anyway, i have gone on a bit here. Hope this makes sense to someone. Look forward to following you on your next chapter. I'm in Brighton by the way X

  • Hopes Here
    Hopes Here Year ago

    You never let the video be bored for a single second 😍

  • Hopes Here
    Hopes Here Year ago

    Give me training of making blog please

  • Megan Olivier
    Megan Olivier Year ago

    Your personality is just so damn fun!
    Maybe you need a bit more of a break, Aly? Read Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert if you haven't already. Amazing for creative people. The audiobook is lovely.
    I'm a writer (and so of course I love reading) - very excited to read your book when it's ready.

  • Jonathan Gannon
    Jonathan Gannon Year ago

    When you mentioned scraping the bottom of a nutella jar I was literally doing that with a spoon and a jar of peanut butter, like COME ON GIVE ME SOME MORE PEANUT BUTTER but it was all used up. So I enjoyed the analogy :-)

  • E A
    E A Year ago

    Idea. Regress to childhood. Watch your childhood cartoons, remember things you did as a kid, remember where you came from and who you are. Get grounded to make a foundation to build on.

  • purpleCupfish
    purpleCupfish Year ago

    About your cup, sleep more?

  • Zakaria Mamudd
    Zakaria Mamudd Year ago

    Good morning . This is zakaria from Bangladesh. You can call me zack . You video are really amazing ..... as you said you coming to India last of this year. So why not Visit Bangladesh . I would happy guide you around . I really hope you come here . This my email zakaria.mamudd.017@gmail.com

  • Joan E
    Joan E Year ago

    You have recently travelled to many of your dream destinations in the last 5 months. Beginning before Christmas with your trip with Scotty to NYC. From piecing things together, it seems like a transition like nothing you've ever experienced in your young life. First, cut yourself some slack. Don't worry about filling your cup! It must remain empty for now so you can move freely about the cabin!!! JK But honestly, I think you need to absorb the very spiritual, ancient places you've been and maybe see how you can fit what you've learned about yourself into your day to day. Like I've told you before, we'll be here Aly. Enjoy your remaining time in Budapest. Enjoy looking at the treasures you've brought back from your adventures. Pack them all safely as you get ready to move back to England. You will find your way darling! We all do... Just let it happen. Take some time to sort yourself out dear one!! Love you girl, 🌹 Joan 🌹

  • Vegard Heyerdahl
    Vegard Heyerdahl Year ago

    Take care of your self 👍 we creative people get burned out as well.

  • Louise Coulombe
    Louise Coulombe Year ago

    Have you been to the New York Cafe in Budapest, yet? If not, be sure to go before you leave!

  • The Tao of David
    The Tao of David Year ago

    Totally get it. I've been going bonkers lately with travel videos and right now as much as I want to film as much as possible, I just can't bring myself to do It the last few days.
    I always have to remind myself just to take time for myself and refocus and not get carried away with what viewers want and remember it's also about me.
    Now I want Nutella thanks Aly! 😂

  • Amber R.
    Amber R. Year ago +2

    My advice would be to take time for yourself. Give yourself breaks. I would also learn about and start practicing mindfulness, if you don't already. I hope your creative cup refills :)

  • Rose Perrone
    Rose Perrone Year ago

    I'm a software developer. That sometimes happens to me when I lose momentum.

  • Rikki Gould
    Rikki Gould Year ago +7

    You need boredom! I know that sounds bonkers, but boredom is the mental space out of which creativity grows. You need to give yourself time and space to do nothing. Eventually the creative juices will start flowing again. (There is some science behind this btw - might be worth a google). Love how honest you always are about this kind of stuff x

  • A. Kröger
    A. Kröger Year ago

    Sounds a lot like my filmmaking version of writer's block the past few years. If ya don't have creative ideas, just take breaks and chat with us between. Here for the journey hon and support whatever you do!

  • Tamas Tóth-Bezerédi

    Finally back home to Budapest. :-))

  • Giuseppe Filippi
    Giuseppe Filippi Year ago

    Did you break up with Scotty??

  • Danica Christin
    Danica Christin Year ago

    I had travel burnout last year. The only thing that seems to work is to stop travelling entirely for a while. Staying in the UK for a while and just taking it easy is probably the best cure 👩🏼‍⚕️

  • Ashleigh Hogan
    Ashleigh Hogan Year ago

    I've been studying photography now for like 7 years and I have periods where I feel so sick of taking images and although it is what I want to do with my life, the thought of taking another photograph literally makes me sick. I normally end up taking a break and working in something which isn't creative and then when I come to photography I love it again. You need more you time, or just making videos for you.

  • Morgan Selenius
    Morgan Selenius Year ago

    Omgomgomgomgomg!!!!!! Ive been in budapest for 4 days!!!!! Im so glad youre back!

  • jasmin1992
    jasmin1992 Year ago

    You bought very beautiful mirror😍

  • Blocked and Reported

    When I get burnt out on making content, I read the news or opinion pieces. Granted I make commentary so it's a little easier for me to change subjects. Depending on what the issue is maybe throw darts at a map and look up pictures of those places? Maybe in the Americas since it's the side of the world you've seen the least. Everything you'd be looking up would be a bit new.

  • Blocked and Reported

    I live near Lake Tahoe and I'm pretty sure it has a horizon. It's a beautiful lake, just really cold.

  • Kotanyi Reka
    Kotanyi Reka Year ago

    I also think that the best way to get your creativity back is to do nothing, ideas will come to you and you get started again. :) You have been to 2 big travels lately, had much input so let them work while you take a break and find balance. Keep on doing the vlogs they are really good! :)

  • Erin H
    Erin H Year ago

    Someone else probably already suggested this, but if you're feeling creative burnout, the first step is to just do nothing about it, go on walks, cook some recipes, read, catch up on shows, just give your mind a break! The second step is then to do more creative (but fun!) things that you don't normally do, take a painting or cooking class, plan an event (like a party) for a bunch of friends, make pottery, etc to get the creative juices flowing, but no stress if you don't like the results because there's little pressure. Then you'll be ready to go again! In other words, vacation from your vacations!

  • Fernando Nogueira

    🎬 Excellent 📹 Video 🎥! _ Congratulations! 👍 🇧🇷

  • noone goingnowhere

    I had the same feeling last year. Taking a long break is a good idea

  • Peter Jeager
    Peter Jeager Year ago +1

    Dear Aly, I would advise you not to try to fill that creative cup. Your inner self is changing at the moment as you reach a higher stage of maturity in these months. That is one of the reasons why you decided to return to England. You are in a transitional period at the moment in which the roles you play for the outside world and for yourself (your outer self) is beginning to contradict your inner self significantly; and I believe in such a situation it is best to let your outer self adjust your inner self instead of trying to force yourself to remain who you were a year ago. It won't work and you won't be happy that way; such a project would be like trying to push your wisdom teeth back. It is my gut feeling that even your zest for travelling will gradually decrease during this transition to a higher level. Just let things go naturally, and you will discover new, different ways to be happy. Best wishes: Peter

    • Peter Jeager
      Peter Jeager Year ago

      PsychoTraveller Dear Aly, I am glad you have found my thoughts worth considering. I even have an intuition about the kind of person you would become in that "whole new chapter", but perhaps that suggestion would create too much resistance from you now, it might backfire, and I don't want to risk that. One needs more bravery to let things develop in oneself and to act accordingly than to lead an artificial life based on a false self-image. I believe you have sufficient strength to adjust to your inner changes, so you have a great chance to have a different but fulfilling life in the next few years, much happier than you have ever been. I wish you good luck: Peter

    • PsychoTraveller
      PsychoTraveller  Year ago

      That's a really interesting way to look at this. From my past in psychology this intruiges me. I'm certainly growing a lot right now which may be confusing right now but very exciting. I'll be sure not to push myself in any direction and let this play out. I'm certain the outcome will lead to epic things and also be a whole new chapter we can take together! ☺☺☺

  • Heather M
    Heather M Year ago

    Love the vlog. I was cracking up at the act natural part. 😂😂 Yes pick up any sort of hobby :) i also think maybe your mind has no creative juices because you are moving soon? Your mind is cluttered with tons already :).

    • PsychoTraveller
      PsychoTraveller  Year ago +1

      It is so true! The upcoming move with lots of change is certainly ticking away in the background and probably unknowingly draining me. 🤔

  • Ana Rijo
    Ana Rijo Year ago +3

    Shes portuguese like me... toothpicks on cheese? Portuguese way.

  • David
    David Year ago +1

    you could try a different creative out let like painting etc and that might help with refilling your creative cup for vloging and other content for your channel. Hey do a lets paint with Aly show ;)

  • Ahmad Fadzly
    Ahmad Fadzly Year ago +1

    I think i've been there before and i came back with new ways to motivate and inspire myself .

  • Sirocco
    Sirocco Year ago +2

    Hi Aly, 35 years since my wife and I have flown (I mentioned it in one of your live chats) and we have just got back from celebrating our 30th anniversary in Budapest. Thank you for inspiring us to go there and for all the pointers on Budapest, we had a lovely time 😀

    • PsychoTraveller
      PsychoTraveller  Year ago

      Amazing! I love that city!!

    • Sirocco
      Sirocco Year ago

      Thanks Aly, you have started something, we are off to Prague next week for the week x 😀

    • PsychoTraveller
      PsychoTraveller  Year ago

      Congratulations!! 😍

  • David
    David Year ago +1

    Aly do you have any tattoos like your friend ? if so what.

  • Alyssa Arroyo
    Alyssa Arroyo Year ago +2

    Something I've started to do that helps when I get creatively empty I focus on menial tasks. IE: cleaning the house, baking and cooking. Then I start learning something new creatively: like jewelry making ( which in starting to build a business from now), crochet, and needlepoint.
    Maybe look into a skillshare class after at least a week of not doing super creative work. Focus on planning your move and maybe get oranganized that way.
    I just got out of that creative funk after a while of nothing. Finally getting back into writing and working on music. Take as much time as you can for yourself Ally :)

  • Sylvia van Bruggen
    Sylvia van Bruggen Year ago +6

    Long time follower, first-time commenter :) I am a writer firstl and formost and a creative person altogether :) My best advice to refill your creative cup is to do nothing. Absolutely nothing. Don'tfeel the need to do anything, just sit with your thoughts. Then, when you feel ready, journal. This can be pen to paper or fingers to keyboard. Just write. It can be on a topic if you want, but I find that limits me. And then the third step is to reflect on what you have written, and find the lessons there. Also, I find that when I have a lot of impressions from travel, I need time to compost everything, let it sink into my system. It's a natural process, I think. And I am nowhere near the prolific traveller like you are. I have the same feeling after a day out and about in a town :)

  • hammadi zakaria
    hammadi zakaria Year ago +1

    بالصحة المرآة have fun 😄

  • Madalena Caldas
    Madalena Caldas Year ago +3

    i think you cant be a creative and not hit walls;its completely natural don't beat yourself up.i would suggest doing some Budapest focused videos before leaving and also what happened to travellers tale? i think that would be a really good series to spice up your chanel 😁

  • Natty Travels
    Natty Travels Year ago +1

    One of the wonderful people that have inspired me to travel. Great video!

  • Hailey BR
    Hailey BR Year ago +1

    Take some time for yourself! The creativity will come back! Krakow is also so nice and green already!

  • Soul Traveler
    Soul Traveler Year ago +1

    Meditation will connecting you with creating :)

    • PsychoTraveller
      PsychoTraveller  Year ago

      Completely agree. I'm getting back on the mat for sure ☺

  • The French Mode
    The French Mode Year ago +2

    Hey Ali! For the creative cup issue, I find that, usually, doing something that changes your perspective slightly, takes you out of your bubble really helps. Going for a walk actually usually does it for me, or grabbing a book, watching a film that intrigues me, stuff like that. It takes your mind away from your work and hopefully sparks some inspiration ! Hope it helps ! Xx

    • The French Mode
      The French Mode Year ago

      PsychoTraveller i'm glad to hear that ! That usually does it 😊

    • PsychoTraveller
      PsychoTraveller  Year ago

      Yep the walk I took at the end of the vlog really did help. I didn't let myself go home till I started reconnecting again. ☺

  • qp Ratan Sharma
    qp Ratan Sharma Year ago +3

    Hey have you ever seen a bumper sticker on a classic car or have u seen a rolls Royce with a bumper sticker ?

  • Nekoish
    Nekoish Year ago +1

    You are so inspiring!

  • adil serrano
    adil serrano Year ago +1

    😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • Emily Maxwell
    Emily Maxwell Year ago +2

    Love your videos !! You inspired me to travel and now I’m heading to Europe and Egypt for 2 months next week !! 🤗

    • PsychoTraveller
      PsychoTraveller  Year ago +2

      Ahhh so jealous, Egypt stole my heart!!! Have an amazing time!

  • Rekha Sharma
    Rekha Sharma Year ago +1

    First comment... love from india 💟 ... new subscriber ✌😊😃😍

  • Mr. Advance
    Mr. Advance Year ago +1

    I'm the first one here.

  • Desh Ki Baat
    Desh Ki Baat Year ago

    U r doing perfect work...can I get a like?